Regarding love, Zhang Ailing wrote: Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red changed a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still 'the bright moonlight in front of the bed'; married to the white rose, the white is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart.
This means that in the life of most men, there are two such women, one is the goddess of youth, the white moonlight in the memory, the cinnabar mole in the heart, and always the beauty in the memory; the other is the woman who accompanies her, is a lover, is a wife, and then becomes a yellow-faced woman who especially wants to get rid of.
The reason why "White Moonlight" and "Cinnabar Mole" are beautiful is because it is imaginary love, there is no trouble of life, there is no triviality of chai rice oil and salt, and there is always the purity and beauty of first love.
Then there is the fact that once people want something, but they never get it, then this thing is the best.
This kind of imaginary love is not only for men, but also for women.
In the hit drama "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu's love for Shi Yuan is "White Moonlight" and "Cinnabar Mole", which is the love in the imagination.
In "Heart Residence", although Gu Qingyu has fallen in love several times, he has never been able to enter the marriage, and the root cause is because of the white moonlight of his youth - Shi Yuan.
Gu Qingyu's imagination is because the 14-year-old boy who played the piano for her entered her dream, so that she could no longer walk out of the dream that the boy named "Shi Yuan" had built for her.
Then when he woke up from the dream, Shi Yuan did not come. He did not appear in the place where he had agreed with Gu Qingyu.
Because it didn't get, it's better. Gu Qingyu's imaginary love has gone farther and farther.
Because there is imaginary love, Gu Qingyu always wants to find Shi Yuan's shadow in other men.
And the sudden appearance of Shi Yuan, so that Gu Qingyu has the possibility of imagining love, running to the present, so Gu Qingyu, who has always been logical and rigorous, analyzes things and is the head of the Tao, has become a love brain and began to be desperate.
Gu Qingyu didn't care about the huge difference between him and Shi Yuan. Gu Qingyu is a top white-collar worker with an annual income of tens of millions, has a house and a car in Shanghai, and lives exquisitely and is dashing and arbitrary. Shi Yuan, secondary school education, international tour guide part-time worker, no house, no car, no savings, more than 1.5 million debts, uremia mother waiting for a kidney replacement, ambiguous with neighbor Lily, fake marriage for money twice, marriage history is ugly.
Such a huge contrast, because Shi Yuan is Gu Qingyu's "white moonlight", because the beauty of love in Gu Qingyu's imagination did not become an obstacle to the marriage of Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan, and they flashed marriage.
But imaginary love is not love, and it cannot bring the beauty of life.
Before and after the flash marriage, Gu Qingyu in love, immersed in the sweetness of love, could not see the troubles of life, but after the heat of love, she found a place of chicken feathers in life.
Shi Yuan's mother's contempt for Gu Qingyu was the first scar in their marriage.
Then, Gu Qingyu found that Shi Yuan after middle age did not have the romance of that light at all. His daily life is only difficult, part-time fatigue, the drag of debt, his mother's illness, can not give Gu Qingyu the wind and snow.
So Gu Qingyu began to work hard to create conditions to reduce shi yuan's life pressure.
She bought Shi Yuan's antique piano, and she paid half a million yuan for Shi Yuan's mother.500 million for surgery. But Gu Qingyu forgot that once love is stained with copper smell, it will not be pure and beautiful.
Shi Yuan's high-level inferiority made him completely collapse after knowing Gu Qingyu's financial help.
Saying that his dignity has been trampled on, thinking that Gu Qingyu's actions have made all his efforts, all his efforts, all his dignity burned.
Then, the two separated, and the marriage came to the brink of breakdown.
Because the love between Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan is only imaginary love. Although when the imaginary love is shattered, Gu Qingyu can only face the chicken feathers of life.
Those who have do not know to cherish, and those who lose are always missed.
Gu Qingyu, who lives in imaginary love, may never get true happiness.
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