People who have watched "Heart Residence" have said that Feng Xixi, a woman, is definitely a cruel person.
I have to say that a woman like her has a scheming and a calculation, but she also has her own shining point.
As a foreign sister with no background and no diploma, Feng Xixi's pressure is much greater than That of Feng Xiaoqin, Feng Xiaoqin married into the Gu family, had children, and waited for the Gu family, no matter what prejudices the Gu family had about her, at least she was the daughter-in-law that this family ming media was marrying, and it was natural to live in the Gu family.
But as Feng Xiaoqin's sister living in the Gu family, she is somewhat embarrassed, saying that it is still good to send people under the fence, to put it ugly, she is the oil bottle brought by her sister.
When watching the previous plot, I have always had a good impression of Feng Xiqian, who can bear hardships and stand hard work, can also be tolerant, and can also be open-minded when it is time to be open-minded, if she can have this awareness, she will be able to achieve a career in the future.
Toughness can endure hardship
Feng Xixi has not studied well since she was a child, and only went to high school to come out to work, because she has no diploma background and is a foreigner, she can only work odd jobs in the supermarket while studying at night school.
Because of the sending fence, Feng Xixi has great eyesight, hands and feet are also diligent, in the Gu family she is never idle, with her sister busy, playing the role of the "second nanny" of this family.
Later, Zhan Xiang helped her introduce a bank job, like all urban beauties, wearing professional clothes, in and out of high-end office buildings, this is the life that Feng Xixi dreams of having, but with her academic qualifications, she has to rely on herself to step into this threshold, only afraid that she will not have a chance in her lifetime, so Feng Xixi cherishes this hard-won and decent job.
As a newcomer with no background and no qualifications, if you want to make a performance, you must pay dozens of times more effort than others, colleagues do not bring, the master does not teach, Feng Xixi can only rely on a burst of energy, hand out leaflets everywhere, call one by one, and run around the city day and night.
Feng Xixi lives in the Gu family, seeing through the cold and thin of the Gu family and the humble embarrassment of her sister in this family, so she vows to break out of a career, she is not afraid of suffering, nor is she afraid of tiredness, she just wants to be able to stand on her own feet in Shanghai and be an independent and confident woman like Gu Qingyu.
Ordinary people can endure and cannot tolerate
In a sentence, it is said that if a person knows how to bend and change things, even if it is to give and give, it will become straight, unforgettable, and will eventually succeed.
Although it is the principle of not bending and not bending, sometimes, enduring humiliation and burden is also a kind of wisdom for people to deal with the world.
Feng Xixi not only can bear hardships, but also has a strong personality, and she has the tenacity not to yield to fate in her bones, but when she faces ridicule and humiliation, she can endure all the grievances and bitterness.
Once at the Gu family banquet, Su Wangdi said by name that he wanted her to be a nanny for Gu Xin and Ge Yue, and as for the salary, it would definitely be higher than the market price of the nanny.
The word "nanny" completely tore apart the hidden pain of Feng Xixi's low status under the fence and her sister's inferior position in the Gu family.
The sister married into the Gu family for eight years, and tried her best to serve the family, but she could not integrate into this family, no matter how she paid for the family, she was finally just a nanny role, and even with her, she also became a cheap nanny in the eyes of the Gu family.
Even Feng Xiaoqin couldn't help but shake her face at Su Wangdi, but Feng Xiqian didn't say a word, but just grabbed the door and came out, swallowing all the humiliation of the brain into her stomach, and quietly swallowed all the bitterness and tears.
In order to pull the business, she had to endure the salty pig hands and sexual harassment of male customers, it was difficult to open a single, but was recorded by the master of "eating ugly" to her name, if it was another woman, suffering from these humiliations, she may have already thrown her hands away, but Feng Xixi gritted her teeth and endured.
I have to say that Feng Xixi's heart is strong, and she is soberly aware that she does not have enough courage to say no, nor does she have enough strength to resist, so she endures all this, which does not mean that she is cowardly, but just represents her bravery and perseverance.
This test is not only a person's pattern, but also their own perseverance, such a Feng Xixi, will always make people a little more painful and pity.
If you can keep the bottom line, it will become a big thing
If Feng Xiaoqin is a woman who is good at calculation, then Feng Xixi is definitely a more ruthless role than her sister, she has the heart and courage and means, can bear hardships and stand hard work, and understands the hidden patience and dormancy, such a woman, if she can do it down-to-earth, she will be able to achieve great things in the future.
The only thing Feng Xixi did wrong was for profit, and there could be no bottom line.
For the sake of performance, she can lower her self-worth without a bottom line and let those male customers "take advantage"; in order to retaliate and promote, she knows three and three, seduces Gu Xin; for the sake of profit, she uses public office to illegally finance and arbitrage loans.
When Feng Xiaoqin learned that she had an affair with Gu Xin and wanted to persuade her, she said:
Sister, I am now sailing against the current, and if I don't advance, I will retreat. If I don't grasp Gu Xin's life-saving straw, I am a small clerk at the age of sixty, and it is better to mix in my hometown, at least people are more relaxed.
Feng Xixi, who has lost the bottom line of principle in this way, has long forgotten the justice of bravely denouncing the "bread-pinching man" in the supermarket, forgetting the arrogance of "salty pig hands" when maintaining dignity, and completely becoming a slave to the right to profit and money.
15-year-old son as a brother, with all his heart to marry Gu Lei, calculate Zhan Xiang, and finally have a happy old age, Feng Xiaoqin's life in the eyes of outsiders can be described as a deep heart and heavy, but in the community, some of the old people who know her give her an evaluation:
Women in good families are not necessarily good people, and women who are not good families are not necessarily bad people. You, the man, eat almost the same, and have a very good conscience. I can't see people wrong.
The sisters who are also good at calculation for the sake of life, one of them has ruined his reputation and returned to his hometown in disgrace; one has been praised by people, married to a good man, and then the car house money and fame and fortune have been reaped, this huge gap, probably because she calculates and calculates, but she can always keep the bottom line, just in response to the sentence "Eating almost, conscience is quite good."
Conclusion
Feng Jicai said: Only by keeping the bottom line can a person gain a successful self and a successful life.
The bottom line is the most basic foundation of being a person, and a person who has a bottom line and acts in a principled way can be respected by others.
In this materialistic and money-oriented world, many people, like Feng Xixi, have the ability and vigor, but because they can't resist the temptation, they gradually lose their dignity, lose their moral bottom line, and lose themselves.
I hope that you have gone through the vicissitudes of the floating world, still can not forget the original heart, only by keeping the bottom line that should be there, can you stand in the world for a long time and be undefeated,