A woman's happiness cannot be counted on by men, because love does have a shelf life in real life.
If you want a man to keep you fresh all the time, the best thing to do is to constantly improve yourself.
Only when you are not afraid of anyone's departure can you truly live for yourself.
A woman's blessing is created by herself, and a woman's happiness is mostly hidden in the "hand".
Over time, a woman's appearance will change, but a happy woman will age in half.
A truly blessed woman will also live a more refined life in real life.
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Blessed woman, her hands must be delicate
A blessed woman, often is held in the palm of the hand to care, whether before and after marriage, will be valued, those who are not valued by the family, in addition to the need for husbands and children, but also need to do some wonderful physical labor, just ask, how high can such a big woman's happiness be?
If a woman's skin is delicate, then it means that the woman is also pampered by her husband in family life. A woman's ten fingers do not stain the spring water does not mean that this woman is lazy, in fact, in a way, this woman is worthy of pampering.
Because in family life, such a woman is valued, and some people have done dirty work for her because they hurt her. Whether a woman is happy or not depends on her appearance, but if you want to know whether a woman is blessed, then you have to look at her hands.
I once heard a friend tell such a story, before getting married, she was basically a woman with an independent career, and her life was particularly fulfilling every day, but after getting married, in order to take care of the family, she gave up her long-working career and gave all her time to her husband.
At first, she felt that this kind of life was still quite happy, but after getting married, she gradually got tired of this way of life, and every day she had to face a lot of crying children he a lot of housework.
At that time, she began to really think about the meaning and value that marriage brings to a woman.
When they first got together, the relationship between the two was indeed very sweet, but as the family conflicts increased, she became more and more skeptical about whether her lifestyle was correct.
In the married life, she is not as happy as before, and even sometimes there will be some depression, because she can't get her husband's understanding and care, so she has become more and more depressed in this married life, and even feels that she is not as happy as before.
In fact, what a woman is afraid of in her emotional life is not marriage, but a man's cold attitude, to know a woman's happiness, it depends on the man's attitude and intention to her.
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Blessed women must be diligent
A woman's happiness also depends on her own hands to work hard.
A woman who knows how to be diligent will never be abandoned by others.
Why don't some women have initiative in the world of feelings? In fact, the answer is very simple, because we can't rely on ourselves, in this world, we need to understand a truth that whoever leaves can live.
A woman's happiness should not be pinned on a man.' A wise woman who knows how to work her own hands in a better world, an independent and confident woman, will never live dependent on a man.
A diligent woman is truly blessed, because only by relying on herself can she have enough food and clothing.
Dees advice tells us that living in the moment is the most important thing.
Don't try to find a sense of presence in others.
In this world, the real point that can make us respected by others is your diligence and independence, if you do not know how to arm yourself with your own efforts, then others will not take you to heart.
A woman's blessing is created for herself, and it is a kind of luck to be loved, but if you know how to love yourself, then you will become more brilliant to people, and you will have more choices.
Some people may say that she is blessed, that is her fate, but in fact, a woman's blessing often needs to rely on her own efforts, and people are actually value equal in many cases.
You are not good enough, and others will naturally not take you to heart.
At every stage of life, a woman can have different life experiences, but what can really make a woman have confidence is often the woman's ability.
Schwartz's thesis tells us that "luck" and "misfortune" are all about you.
We should not put our hopes on others, a person loves you, that is a blessing cultivated in a previous life, but if no one loves, then we need to learn to love ourselves.
Everyone lives and pursues their own happiness, but in this world, true happiness is often given by themselves, and the arrival of others can only be the icing on the cake.
Learn to love yourself well, and you will make yourself more and more blessed.