Life is hard already hard, so why not make it sweet?
The sense of ceremony is not only about the process, but also about the satisfaction of the heart and the sense of happiness that is valued.
More and more young parents, who realize the importance of ritual, are doing their best in life to create all kinds of surprises for their children. Because parents are very clear: childhood is only once, the time to accompany children is limited, if you can create more sense of ceremony for them, it will also create another kind of happiness.
The first sense of ceremony given to a child should be a full moon feast, right? It's just that at that time, the children were still too young, whether it was to the people around them, or to the surrounding environment, there was not much impression. So the sense of ceremony in this period is more of a blessing, and the child has almost no sense of participation.
But then, there is a very important thing that parents need to prepare their children in advance. That is the "meat opening ceremony", from breast milk, milk powder to rice noodles, these changes in diet are quietly telling the growth of children.
Regarding the "meat opening ceremony", it is not the parents who think that they eat meat ingredients, but the meaning of adding complementary foods. On the day I decided to add complementary food to my children, I "hosted" a very ceremonial family feast for them. You don't need too many people, just the closest people to accompany you, you can make your child feel extremely happy.
Regarding such a meat opening ceremony, I believe that many people have brushed such a video, and happiness seems to overflow across the screen. For this moment, parents deliberately learned to slip by the mouth, just to take this opportunity to express their blessings and likes for their children.
Of course, parents will have different views on such a meat opening ceremony:
Post-80s mothers: Although I agree with the saying that life needs a sense of ceremony, it always feels a bit fussy when used in children who are a few months old. Therefore, the meat opening ceremony is really not necessary, as long as the child grows up healthily, it is enough.
Post-90s mothers: Don't want to miss every moment of their children's growth, so every change will be recorded carefully. The meat opening ceremony is exactly part of the child's growth, and it is natural to arrange for the child to be in place. A few years later, it is also a precious memory.
Post-00s moms: As the youngest moms, post-00s are always at the forefront of fashion. Holding a meat opening ceremony for children is definitely something worth celebrating, and will also invite girlfriends and friends who have good relationships to witness his growth.
It seems that mothers of different ages have their own different understandings of the meat opening ceremony. But one thing that's particularly similar is that life really needs a sense of ritual in order to perceive more happiness. You know, life is already very bitter, occasionally adjusted, there will be a sudden sense of openness.
Behind the sense of ritual, all that is hidden is happiness
Regarding the sense of ritual, many people feel that "no disease moaning" is a complete waste of time and resources, and they are dismissive of it.
But in fact, the sense of ceremony is particularly important, especially in the growth of children. True abundance is not how much material they are given, but spiritual and spiritual satisfaction. The sense of ceremony satisfies both conditions at the same time.
To put it simply: Children who grow up enjoying a sense of ritual from an early age will transform into better. In the future growth, they will develop more good living habits driven by the sense of ceremony, because the sense of ceremony is originally a kind of etiquette and a kind of respect.
In addition, the child's ability to feel happiness will be stronger, and the happiness index will be higher. Life is full of sunshine and happiness everywhere, and what you naturally see is the positive and sunny side. Even if you are temporarily trapped by the haze, the inner sunshine will break through the haze.
As the old saying goes: What kind of mentality you have, you will see what kind of future. If the child has always maintained a good and optimistic attitude, then his future is naturally smooth and smooth.
How do you create a sense of ritual for your child?
For "pragmatic" parents, although they have the intention to create surprises for their children and want to give them a life full of rituals, they are suffering from no way to start.
It's simple: "good morning" every morning, "good night" before going to bed, and the phrase "I love you" are words that express a sense of ritual. Of course, these behaviors will slowly become habits, replacing the surprises brought by the sense of ritual.
If you want to double the effect of the sense of ceremony, you can choose the more important moments: the child sleeps independently, enters the kindergarten, enters the primary school, gets a hundred points on the exam... These opportunities are important and important journeys for children to grow. If you are accompanied by flowers, gifts or applause at this moment, I believe that the child will have a more sense of accomplishment.
Every transformation and progress is to tell the child: the past you are very good, but the future you, there will be more possibilities. I also hope that the child's originally plain life can have more hope and sweetness.
Written at the end: the sense of ceremony is not a pretense, nor is it a mysterious reason, but a way of loving life. There is a half-year-old baby at home, hurry up to arrange a wedding banquet for him with a sense of ceremony, and carefully record the growth and happiness of this moment.