The 10 types of maternal love that affect children, especially the third, are often overlooked

Raising children requires less utilitarianism. Not by worldly standards, but by inner well-being.

Happiness is like a mathematical problem, which can be established with conditions and solved by skills. The seemingly sparse and ordinary little things in life are the key to improving a child's happiness.

First, speak well

Many times, parents are obviously out of concern and love, but a mouth has become a sharp blade that hurts the child, causing harm to the child that is difficult to heal. What parents have to do is to understand a little more and blame less, a little more encouragement and less blows, a little more tolerance and less complaining, only in this way can the child experience the happiness flowing in the heart and the warmth brought by the family.

Second, let go moderately and return the steering wheel of life to the child

Many parents are afraid of their children taking a detour, so they always "constrain" their children in various ways, even if the children have grown up. Truly wise parents never become the masters of their children's lives, but the needles of the sea god in the inner world of their children. Give them strength, give them a bottom, stand where the child can see as soon as he looks up, silently accompany and watch over the child.

Third, more sense of ceremony, so that children are full of expectations for tomorrow

Educators believe that children's childhood needs four kinds of nutrition, namely: security, presence, achievement and ritual. Many parents think that the sense of ceremony is very complicated, but in fact, an unexpected gift, a colorful trip, can interpret the sense of ceremony, can make children keenly aware of the differences in life, remember every special moment spent with their parents. Gradually, these seemingly ordinary rituals become a great force rooted in the child's heart, establishing the child's expectations for the future life.

Fourth, be kind to the other half and provide children with sufficient sense of security

Every quarrel, insult, shoving, and tearing of parents is a delay in the child's spirit. After all, the relationship between parents affects the child's personality; the parents' mode of getting along determines the child's future. If you want to raise a confident, optimistic, and secure child, the best way is to be kind to your partner. Let the child in the intimate, harmonious family, perceive love and learn to love, and ultimately, become a warm and loving person.

Fifth, crouch down to communicate, impress the child with respect and sincerity

Many times, the parent-child relationship is deadlocked because of the forgetting to think differently and compare hearts to hearts. At this time, if parents can try to squat down and look at the problem from the child's point of view, they can naturally understand the child's behavior, understand the child's mistakes, and the distance between the heart and the heart will be closer. More importantly, life is an echo, and when parents begin to understand their children, children will slowly learn to be grateful to their parents.

Allow your child to cry and accept his negative emotions

In life, many parents do not allow their children to shed tears, so that children obviously have a rainstorm in their hearts, but on the surface they can only force a smile and chew sadness alone. But in fact, crying is also a good thing for children. Tears flow out, and the emotional garbage in the heart will not be silted up. Evacuate the old sadness to make enough room for new happiness, and the child will be stronger than before.

Seventh, accompany the child to "go crazy" and stimulate his creativity

The time when parents play with their children can not only let children experience a different kind of happiness, but also let children stimulate creativity and imagination in the process of understanding the world and exploring the world, and obtain a different sense of achievement. And one day, when the child grows up, the happiest fragment of his memory will not be a problem or a set of formulas, but the time when he runs and laughs with his parents.

Eighth, discover the shining points of your own children

Every child is a unique existence in the world, has its own season, some children are peonies, spring will bloom as soon as the country is fragrant; some children are plums, only in the winter can they be proud of frost and snow. Seeing the difference in the child and encouraging the child to play to his own strengths, he can live a long life in his own rhythm.

Nine, support the child's hobbies, ignite his inner passion

True life achievements must belong to those who are extremely intoxicated. As parents, what we have to do is to explore the child's interest, let him use the interest as fuel in a long life, live for love, and bloom out of the fireworks of different colors in the world.

10. Move with your child and find a good medicine to heal your body and mind

Many parents ignore the importance of exercise, thinking that it is better to have time than to let their children do two more problems and play one more song. But we forget that exercise not only makes children healthy, smart, and tough. It can also secrete a "happy hormone" that allows the body and mind to expel toxins and heal the body and soul. Exercise may seem like a small habit, but when the child overcomes inertia and becomes a part of life, one day, he will be pleasantly surprised to find that because of exercise, he has gained a better self and a particularly wonderful life.

May every child have a glimpse of that option for happiness, bravely move forward, and rush to the mountains and seas.

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