A person's life cannot be smooth sailing, let alone everything is satisfactory. Everyone's life trajectory will more or less have ups and downs, twists and turns.
Some people experience setbacks and difficulties in the process of growing up, some people end up with sad and miserable endings in their old age, while some people, from the time they come to this world, will encounter countless fatal blows.
When the "children with cerebral palsy" who were issued 5 critical illness notices by the hospital were associated with the "Proud Sons of Peking University" and the "Harvard Boys", we all couldn't believe it: How is this possible?
In fact, such a "miracle" really happened:
When the protagonist Ding Ding Zhengg was born, he suffocated due to too long in the womb, causing serious intracranial hemorrhage, and was diagnosed with severe paralysis.
Even after being issued 5 critical illness notices by the hospital and asserting that the child was either stupid or paralyzed, the rational and objective father decided to give up, but the mother insisted on staying, and from then on, the mother and son were on the way to recovery rain or shine.
In the year that Ding Ding took the college entrance examination, he was admitted to Peking University with a score of 660 points, and later he was guaranteed to study at Peking University for a master's degree and doctoral degree. After graduating with a Ph.D. and working for a year, he was admitted to Harvard Law School.
Today, he is 34 years old, and after graduating with a master's degree in Harvard Law, he worked as a legal counsel for a company in Guangzhou, and was appreciated and valued by his boss.
Each miracle did not happen out of thin air, but experienced nine nine eighty-one tribulations, like the Tang monks in the Western Heavens, did not abandon or give up, and finally succeeded.
Behind every successful child is the result of the parents' hard work. And Tintin's today, all rely on the single mother to support the sky above her head.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong
Like all new mothers, Tintin's mother was overjoyed, singing, reading poetry and telling stories to her baby in her belly during october.
As soon as the baby was born, he was pushed to the emergency room, and the hospital issued 5 "critical illness notices" in one night: no rescue, this child has severe cerebral palsy, even if the child grows up, it is very stupid to be paralyzed. Dad listened and backed down, but Mom was extremely determined: no matter what, I will not give up on this child!
The mother named the baby Tintin (former ding and zheng), which means "Book of Verses. Logging" "Logging Ding Ding, Birdsong Hiss". The meaning is that I hope that Bao Fu will break the "spell" and create a miracle, and live loudly and brightly!
Sometimes it's easy to make a decision, but to turn a dream into a reality, you have to put in a lot of effort. Not to mention the hard work and hardship of raising such a child, the mother alone, is not something that ordinary women can bear.
In order to exercise Tintin's brain, the mother will hold the child and say something for a long time every day. When he was more than 3 months old, in order to teach him to identify colors, the house was filled with colorful balloons.
By chance, the mother was surprised to find that her son could understand his own words, that is, he could clearly find out the color of the balloon indicated by his mother.
This discovery gave the mother great motivation, she held her son and cried with joy, because his son was still very optimistic in terms of IQ.
When Tintin was 8 months old, his mother took him to an intelligence test, and the result was that the intelligence was completely normal!
Such news, compared with "non-paralysis or stupidity", is undoubtedly a great news, just like winning the lottery, which makes my mother ecstatic.
She remembered what the doctor had said, that for children with cerebral palsy, if they hurt their brains, they would affect their mental development; if they hurt their cerebellum, they would be paralyzed.
Now Tintin's intelligence is normal, which means that the cerebellum is injured, and the motor nerves will be affected. In fact, the behavior shown by Tintin has been a bit of a sign, such as: drooling, limb weakness, inability to sit, can not climb.
1-year-old Tintin couldn't climb, couldn't stand, couldn't even grasp a piece of paper. Mom began training him from the point of taking the paper, a simple movement that was easy for a healthy child, while he practiced it for several months.
Tintin, 2, can't walk, only squats; Tintin, 3, drags the left half of the way. He was diagnosed with left hemiplegia.
Since then, my mother has walked the long road of cerebral palsy rehabilitation with Tintin, and massage treatment has never been interrupted every two days.
Even if her mother had a fever of 40 degrees, she was confused, and she still forced Tintin to be sent to the hospital for rehabilitation.
Once, when my mother came home from work, it was pouring rain, but she still did not hesitate to use her bicycle to push Tintin to the hospital.
Even the doctor was moved when he saw it: You actually came on such a day?
The mother said firmly: For the sake of her son, even if I put a knife, I will bring him with me!
With 1% hope, we must do 100% of the effort
Rehabilitation training is not an ordinary massage, it must reach a certain intensity to have a therapeutic effect, and the pain method is really unbearable.
Whenever Tintin tears his heart and lungs in pain inside, the mother outside the door is also in tears of pain, the child is the mother's heart meat, how can it not be painful?
No matter how hard the days are, mothers can grit their teeth and insist, because they hope that their children can get better, and there is hope that there is a direction for efforts.
But reality ruthlessly poured a basin of cold water on the mother who was alone, insisted on a year of rehabilitation training, and had no obvious effect on his son, and he couldn't even walk steadily at the age of 4.
Despite the blow, mom has no intention of giving up, and she always believes that as long as there is 1% hope, it is necessary to do 100% of the effort.
Each rehabilitation training costs 5 yuan, and most of the mother's salary is spent in a month, as well as other treatment costs.
Seeing the situation of not being able to make ends meet, the mother who was already busy like a gyroscope was working several jobs, running on the road every day, either working or taking care of children and doing housework.
Perhaps it is the efforts of mother and son who have touched the heavens, or perhaps it is the kung fu that lives up to the hard-hearted people! Tintin, who has persisted for 3 years, can finally walk slowly.
At the age of 7, Tintin was able to take care of himself and began to go to school independently. In this way, his grades sang all the way, and he was successfully admitted from a rural primary school to a key middle school in the city.
After entering high school, his grades were even more open, creating one brilliant after another, the college entrance examination was admitted to Peking University with a score of 660 points, and when he graduated from the undergraduate, he was sent to Peking University for master's and doctoral studies.
When Tintin was still young, his mother helped him set the goal of the college entrance examination as Peking University. Others laughed at her for being a fool and talking about dreams, but she insisted: Dreams still have to be had, and they don't even dare to think about it, how can they create miracles?
There is a reason for any failure, and just as all success has a direction. Mom can successfully cultivate children with cerebral palsy into high-achieving students, and has a decent job, and her successful educational experience is worth learning and learning from parents.
One of the words that my mother often hangs on her lips is: Go try it, how do you know if you can't do it without trying?
As long as there is 1% hope, not only do not give up, but to do 100% efforts. Attitude determines everything, love to fight to win.
Also, Mom's education of Tintin is concerned about the process, and as for the result, it is natural. She wants to tell her son: as long as you like, be bold and try, what does it matter between losing and winning?
Many parents pay attention to the results, and deprive their children of many opportunities for personal experience, they are not allowed to miss opportunities in the attempt, do not allow slow to move forward in the exploration of wasted time, do not allow children to leave the set life trajectory.
In fact, any growth has its own unique laws. No matter what you do, you must continue to try to sum up the experience and thus form the ability. Making mistakes is also growth, parents may wish to calm down and take a long-term view.