introduction
People say, "Genius and madness are often only one step away." "But in real life, geniuses and lunatics are not just a step away, and some people with congenital defects in spirit and intelligence may not be able to get rid of the troubles and shadows they bring for a lifetime." From "children with cerebral palsy" to "Harvard high-quality students", there is a world of difference between the two, and most people can hardly imagine that there was such a single mother, but they raised their children with cerebral palsy problems into Harvard high-quality students among people.
01
As far as the current level of medical treatment is concerned, congenital cerebral palsy defects are not easy to improve in the acquired environment, and if people with these problems can live and take care of themselves after the efforts of the day after tomorrow, it is already very good.
Zou Yiyan's son Ding Ding, was once a cerebral palsy patient, perhaps family affection is the best medicine, under the careful care of his mother, Ding Ding smoothly lived and went to school, not only lived into a normal person, but also admitted to Harvard University.
In 1988, Zou Yiyan was pregnant in October and was taken to the hospital in July to await delivery. However, just when the child was born, Zou Yiyan and her husband fell into grief, it turned out that the child born by Zou Yiyan was wrapped in an umbilical cord and lacked oxygen, the body had turned purple, and there was no crying when she was carried out of the operating room.
Immediately, the doctor took the child, hurried to the nursing room, and inserted many syringes in the young body of this small life. After the doctor's diagnosis, he told Zou Yiyan and her husband the results: in the future, the child will suffer from cerebral palsy, either intellectually impaired or physically paralyzed.
Hearing this, Zou Yiyan and her husband hugged each other and cried bitterly, if they chose to treat the child, they would inevitably have to bear a lot of risks and spend a high amount of treatment. Family members have persuaded Zou Feiyan to give up the child, after all, she is young and there are still many chances of pregnancy.
However, at this moment, the baby suddenly had a cry, and Zou Yiyan began to be unbearable, and had a big fight with her husband for this reason. After thinking about it again, Zou Yiyan decided to keep the child, so she fell out with her husband.
In this way, Zou Yiyan almost became a single mother, and there is no doubt that such a mother, with a child with cerebral palsy, life will inevitably be full of hardships. However, Zou Yiyan did not want to give up, she named the child "Tintin", hoping that he could leave his own voice in the world.
A few months after Ding Ding's birth, Zou Yiyan began to do some intellectual training for him. She was pleased that Tintin could still react like a normal child, which meant that there was no problem with his current intelligence. It was not until eight months later, when Zou Yiyan took Tintin to the hospital for examination, that she found that Tintin's intelligence was not a problem.
After some joy, Zou Yiyan fell into anxiety again, since Tintin's intelligence was almost the same as that of normal people, it meant that he was likely to face paralysis. In order to prevent this disease, Zou Yiyan began to ask doctors for help, regularly gave Tintin rehabilitation training, and massaged Tintin. Because this massage requires a lot of force, Tintin often cried out in pain and begged for forgiveness, and Zou Yiyan also wiped her tears.
When Ding Ding was ten years old, that is, in 1998, Zou Yiyan's husband still chose to divorce her, and Zou Yiyan was devastated, but she was bent on her children and could not take care of so much.
Although Tintin did a rehabilitation, there was still a gap in athletic ability from normal children. When he went to school, he was often ridiculed by his classmates around him, but Zou Yiyan always encouraged her children, because she knew that her children had already broken the shackles of dementia and paralysis.
02
In high school, Tintin was a top student in the school, and he played well in the college entrance examination and was eventually admitted to Peking University. Since Tintin was admitted to Peking University, the media has also begun to report on his experience, and he has become an object of admiration for everyone.
Of course, in the university, Tintin did not slack off at all, he still studied very hard, and his mother was his role model. Zou Yiyan is a teacher, through hard work, she successfully became an associate professor at a university in Wuhan, And Tintin hopes to work hard like her mother.
After graduating from college, Tintin worked in an Internet company, but he thought that he had regrets in his studies, and he resolutely resigned shortly after working and devoted himself to study and research.
In 2016, at the age of 29, Tintin was admitted to Harvard University. Once a "cerebral palsy child", now, as a high-achieving student at Harvard, he flew abroad to realize his ideals, which is unimaginable to normal people, but Tintin turned it into reality.
At the same time, Zou Yiyan has also received attention from the outside world, as Ding Ding's mother, she has a good godson, and Zou Yiyan is also willing to devote herself to public welfare undertakings, care for and help more children with cerebral palsy, and hope that they can also live a normal life.
After consulting with her son, Zou Yiyan shared her parenting experience with similar families and was respected by many families. Under her influence, more and more children with cerebral palsy have received attention and love.
epilogue
The greatness of maternal love is unimaginable, and who can predict that a heavy maternal love can create such an incredible medical miracle? Of course, Zou Yiyan's strength is also difficult for normal people to reach, only dare to face life, life will give returns, only dare to exclude public opinion, face difficulties, we can harvest a different life.