Helpless, the Internet is full of a lot of this kind of saying, want to make the child strong inside, parents should be more severe, give the child more frustration education, sorry ah, setback education is not so understood frustration education, not to let us parents, specifically to punish the child, give him some color to give him a little strong, but we want to cultivate his inner strong kind of strength from the child's bones, how should we do it? We only need to remember four sentences is enough, then the child will soon have a new transformation.
The first sentence, baby this thing I all listen to you, can let her do the Lord's business, we will try to let the child to be the master, for example, the weekend, baby, let's make a few dishes, this is the mother all listen to you, baby, what movie do we go to see on the weekend, this thing we come to listen to you, baby, how to arrange today's cleaning? Mom and Dad listen to your baby, hey, Grandpa seems to be in a bad mood today, how should we comfort Grandpa? Ah, we come to listen to you, then you let the child, more to coordinate such a difficult thing, the more difficult it is, the child's ability. And the sense of responsibility will become stronger and stronger.
The second sentence, the baby's mother is in trouble, can you help me? Hey, we must remember Ha, parents, do not be too strong, the stronger the parents, the more incompetent the children raised, we go with the child to show weakness, the child will feel it, by what we need to be valued by us, its sense of value, will be greatly improved.
The third sentence, baby, what is your opinion? For example, the aunt in the supermarket quarreled with the salesman today, so what is your opinion on this matter? Eh baby, today, your class seems to be a teacher, and you named a few classmates in the group, what is your opinion on this matter? When you ask in this way, the child will naturally feel that he has grown up, and he will be particularly confident in expressing his ideas, and his ideas will be affirmed by you, and he will also have a great sense of accomplishment.
That last sentence is the most critical, then if you use it well, you can give the child the energy that cannot be used up in a lifetime, that is to say, we often have to face the child. For example, when the baby mother loves you specially, I especially want to make you a good meal, baby, when I love you very much, I especially want to hug your baby. When my mother loves you very much, as soon as I think of you, I am super happy, and my baby mother loves you very much. As soon as I thought of you, I began to work hard to refuel.
When you do this, your child will learn that loving someone is so happy, and it means that I want to think about each other, I want to pay for each other, then the child who is cultivated in this way must be full of confidence, happiness, and enthusiasm and warmth Have you learned?
In fact, setback education and the cultivation of resilience are not difficult, as long as parents allow their children to fail and teach him how to get up.
Parents can usually show their children some similar picture books, such as this set of "Children's Emotional Management and Reverse Quotient Cultivation Picture Books"
This set of picture books consists of 8 volumes, corresponding to 8 themes:
"It doesn't matter if you don't get the first place", "It doesn't matter if you lose your temper", "It doesn't matter if you cry", "It doesn't matter if you quarrel", "It doesn't matter if you fail", "It doesn't matter if you are timid", "It doesn't matter if you are criticized", "It doesn't matter if you say it's not right"
Through the small dilemmas that children may encounter every day, it is normal for children to understand these difficulties and improve their children's contrarian quotient.
The story content in "Children's Emotional Management and Reverse Business Cultivation Picture Book" is close to children's lives, the painting style is exaggerated and interesting, many children read it over and over again, taking this set of picture books as an outlet for emotions, guiding children to do a good job of emotional management, and having a strong heart.