People are multifaceted, don't position people easily
This sentence is for readers, and even more for myself, I have seen Svenwen's girls stealing people outside, and I have also seen girls who smoke, drink, and tattoo with a big grin stick to love. I have seen men in suits and ties scolding at their parents, and I have also seen people with tattoos waiting for their families to be hospitalized and taking care of their elders.
There are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand spectators.
I am ambivalent about Xiangyi, admiring her brilliance and not being ashamed of her excessive pursuit of money; admired her strength and endurance, hated her hypocrisy and perfunctory; I like her down-and-out generosity, and I am tired of her baht.
The Internet is a virtual and free world, where you can show the side you want to be seen by others, set up a persona that satisfies you, and make money simply and quickly.
The Internet is not a place outside the law, it craves positive energy, it is full of discussions and judgments, if you want to achieve something here, you have to accept a more rigorous assessment, the Internet has a memory, every word and deed will be remembered, and it will be turned out at a certain moment.
Recently, I have written a lot of articles about Xiangyi, there are criticisms and praises, because of Xiangyi, so I followed her brother's account, called "Blacksmith", I just saw the video he posted, and I had a lot of feelings, and my thoughts began to drift.
When Xiang Yi was waiting for treatment at the Shanghai Psychological Counseling Clinic, he sat on the steps outside the door with the registration slip in his hand, hiding his face and crying bitterly, and his mother accompanied him while persuading him.
Xiangyi's family is a relatively poor family, and his parents are honest farmers, and his parents' patriarchal thinking has been deeply rooted, which has created Xiangyi's strong and independent character (no one cares if he is not strong), and Xiangyi seems to have some characteristics of pleasing and performative personality.
Some things can also be restored through the video of my brother and Xiangyi, my brother's parents fully support my brother going to school, Xiangyi's family says that there is no money, Xiangyi takes out a loan, and works in the summer to earn travel expenses and living expenses.
Xiangyi's first scholarship was given to his brother half, one computer per person, Xiangyi University graduate doctorate, has been working part-time (restaurant waiter, tutor, wedding host, docent tour guide, shooting videos), making money, this may be the reason why Xiangyi has always been willing to be an Internet celebrity and give up as a university teacher, poor for 30 years, see the opportunity to make money firmly seized.
Xiangyi never talks about his difficulties with his family, and always reports good news but not bad news.
Xiangyi's brother's marriage emptied the entire family and all the savings of Xiangyi.
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Xiangyi's brother has been in the society for many years, starting from the beginning of 3,000 yuan income, to the later monthly income of 20,000 yuan, he has never helped Xiangyi, he is very derelict as an elder brother, and he blames himself.
Brother Lan Tian said: It can be seen that my brother has a very stubborn personality, and he rarely communicates with his family about divorce, and there are many disagreements between family members.
I agree with that.
(Write a digression, I think there are some people around you, who will not care about their families, will not help their families, and will only occasionally say one or two warm words, I have such a friend: I have been married for more than ten years, I have not learned to be self-reliant, as long as there is something, I want to borrow money from my parents, buy a house, buy a car, and my children go to school、、、、 my parents are sick and do not take the initiative or active, just wait for other brothers and sisters to shout, and my parents are also used to it, always making excuses for him、、、
In fact, this is a kind of exploitation, parents need to take care of and need financial support, so let them go to other brothers and sisters, once they have something, they go to their parents for help, this is the exploitation of other brothers and sisters in disguise. ）
Ignorance at youth and ignorance can be ignored, but as an adult. I probably understand the hardships of life, and I understand everything.
The helplessness of life makes people have to show multiple faces, which one is the real self, only you know.
Xiangyi herself also said that she had been stagnant for a year and missed the golden period of the live broadcast, and now the newcomer is surging, and she is very worried and doesn't know how to return to the top.
Judging from the live broadcast scene, Xiang Yi, who was born as a doctor, is not so proficient in live broadcasting, and the lectures are not very smooth, and there is a feeling of catching ducks on the shelves.
In fact, it can be seen from these statements that she feels that being a university teacher has delayed her live broadcast career, which is a fact, but it is also the result of her greed.
Let's take a look at the multi-faceted nature of things from here, Xiang Yi graduated with a doctorate, and is an Internet celebrity, and he faces a choice on the road ahead, find a stable job, or concentrate on being an Internet celebrity.
Xiangyi chose the former, which may be the most correct choice in the eyes of many people (the road of Internet celebrities is not long, Xiangyi has also experienced cyberbullying), became a university counselor, and the follow-up path is a lecturer, professor, master's supervisor, doctoral supervisor、、、、
Xiangyi chose the stability of the university, with a monthly salary of seven or eight thousand, which is already very good for ordinary people, but it was a little less for Xiangyi at that time, because she had already made a lot of money and can still make a lot of money.
At this time, she was entangled, as a college counselor, it was a very busy position, there were a lot of miscellaneous things, uploading and disseminating, and the management of students was very cumbersome, but in order to make money, she still chose to broadcast live at night and shoot videos after class.
Since she completes these things alone, there is a certain conflict in this process, but it is not a big problem, sometimes she can't reply to messages in time during the live broadcast, and sometimes she needs to ask for leave to select products and shoot videos, which are still under control.
But when she said "we Japan" wrong in the live broadcast room, it all went in a different direction.
The Internet has the strictest requirements for university teachers, Chen Guo was condemned for mispronouncing two words, quitting the network, and Mr. Li Bo's views were not recognized, and he also chose to withdraw from the headlines.
started a new round of cyberbullying, Xiang Yi was under tremendous pressure, insisted on not quitting the network, and when countless report letters were sent to the school, things were already out of control, and it was not something she could control, which was why countless netizens said that she wanted and wanted the most fundamental reason.
The university's incessant investigation, Xiangyi's insistence on Internet celebrities, and the continuous cyberbullying of netizens 、、、、 made things go in the worst direction
The original order of the university was disrupted, and the conflicts with the university arose due to unwarranted duties, fluctuations in students' emotions, and tireless efforts, from the beginning of the cooperative investigation to the final unbearable disturbance、、、
After resigning, Xiangyi did a wrong thing and cried about the school, which also led to the loss of fans and a decrease in favorability for many people, and Xiangyi later deleted the video, but the impact still remains.
It is the school that provides a position for Xiangyi, and Xiangyi brings trouble to the school, and this process produces contradictions, and Xiangyi is the main responsible party.
But crying about the school's inaction, inappropriate, you can have grievances and complaints, and the spearhead should be aimed at the person who made you and your own mistakes.
Compared with Xiangyi's remarks that "I have been stagnant for a year and missed the golden period of live broadcast", it is embarrassing.
Mistakes are a matter of proportion, and the positions offered by the university and the corresponding amount of money required are very fair.
Xiangyi said: I also have a big knot in my heart, but after she was cyberbullied and resigned and went home, it was her family who gave her strength and lifted her to be reborn, so now everything is suddenly clear.
Xiang Yi revealed in the live broadcast room that her brother got married and divorced in a flash when she was at a low point, and she also had a little idea of rejoicing for herself at that time, but she didn't expect her brother's marriage to fail, which made her unable to let go.
The Internet is a place where stories and plots are needed, but I don't think this story is well told.
As long as there is a story on the Internet, there will be traffic! Traffic can be turned into income, so even if you don't like to bring goods so much, you have to fight, and pulling the whole family into the house may be the last bargaining chip.
Maybe there is not much time left for her, and it can be seen that Xiang Yi is in a hurry to cash in.
Man is a contradiction, multifaceted; People are a combination of multiple "egos". A person's psychological traits are very stable, but at the same time multifaceted.
To this day, she has had several ups and downs, entering the market with goods, and the living environment determines that she will bend her waist for five buckets of rice, but all living beings in the world are also the most respectable to beg for food with their own skills. But you can't just make money and don't let people evaluate you, because you do have mistakes, and you have also scolded netizens.
The world inside the network is very free, the world outside the network is very comfortable, Internet celebrities are very profitable, but Internet celebrities are very hard, and every Internet celebrity has a time to prepare for cyberviolence.
If you feel that it is too hard, live an ordinary person's life, don't let yourself be so tired, ordinary is also life.
The crown is beautiful, but the crown is also very heavy, if it is not suitable, you will not wear it, and your education and ability are enough for your nourishing life.
Society needs to be inclusive, and there are not many talented people like Xiang Yi on short video platforms.
I think of Chairman Mao's words: If people are allowed to make mistakes, they must also be allowed to correct them!