In our family life, we often hear a saying called "Father's love is like a mountain, and mother's love is like water." ”
In our actual life, it is true that the father's love is like a mountain, but this father's love is like a mountain, and the interaction between mother and child often becomes the mainstream.
So the question is, what should a father do so that fatherly love is not absent from his child's life?
Here are the following suggestions for the reference of fathers:
Be a playful father
Put down the father's shelf, play with the child, establish a close parent-child relationship, stimulate the enthusiasm of the child, after all, play is the nature of the child, so that it can be better entertaining and educational. Regularly or irregularly accompany your child to play and get in touch with some new things.
Be an equal father
Can establish an equal parent-child relationship with the child, and respect the child's personality, get used to soliciting the child's personal opinions and ideas, and treat the child as his friend.
Be a reasonable father
Teach children to be reasonable, refuse to rudely reprimand children, and move them with affection and understand reason. When children are disobedient, they must be patient and reasonable.
Be a humble father
Be a supporting role for children, so that children can give full play to their imagination and hands-on ability. Do not hesitate to praise your children and admit your shortcomings at the right time.
Be a father who is not absent
Do not miss the important time node of the child, let the child feel the father's love and sense of security. Whenever a child has achieved success and gains in learning or life, it is necessary to praise and encourage the child in a timely manner.
Be a learning father
Insist on learning and being a role model for children, in order to better guide children. Consciously or unconsciously let children see their own learning process and set a good example for children in real life.
Be an empathetic father
Children's rebellious emotions should be treated and handled patiently, and children should be accepted, tolerated and understood with a broad mind.
Be a tough father
Let the child see the tenacity and strength of the father, and give the child a voice. No matter what difficulties are encountered, let the child see these qualities of the father.
On the way to growing up, let the father's love not be absent.