Students in adolescence are often rebellious, unwilling to listen to their parents' words, have self-awareness, and do not want to be too constrained by others. Sometimes emotional, will do something stupid, and even use extreme means to solve the problem.
Somewhere in Xiangtan, Hunan Province, a 14-year-old schoolgirl ran away from home with a female classmate and left in a hurry after taking a shower, which upset her parents. Fortunately, after many days of hard work, the child was finally found and returned home healthy and healthy.
The child is young, and he runs away from home at every turn, fortunately he found it, but what if he can't find it? When this happens, it is inevitable that people will think deeply. A child in adolescence is really difficult to manage, and perhaps her parents will forgive her and forgive her ignorance.
What bad thoughts can parents have? I just want my children to study well, have a good future, and grow up healthy and healthy. But how many students can understand the minds of their parents? Still going his own way, either spoiled or too stubborn.
After the 14-year-old girl finished eating and taking a bath, she ran away with another female classmate, and she did not return home in time, but she was worried about her parents and was afraid that something would happen to her children. Many volunteers and rescue teams were involved, and the children returned home a few days later.
It is really "thrilling", these years of similar things, really too much, in case the child can not come back, what is the mood of parents? The roads are full of cameras, and it is reasonable to say that the child's tracks can be found, perhaps the child deliberately avoids the camera.
The child runs away from home, the most worried is the parents, the child is back, but the problem behind it, all parents can not ignore.
The 14-year-old ran away from home with his classmates, perhaps premeditated, and both children rebelled and were in adolescence. It may be something that contradicts the parents, and the two of them hit it off, thinking of the parents and running away from home to express their emotions.
How difficult is it for adolescent children to manage? Do not communicate with their parents, quarrel at every turn, and even fight with their parents. But is it just a child's problem? Not all of them, parents also have certain responsibilities, and the way of education is not right.
It is said that filial piety is born under the stick, but this does not apply to the moment, want to communicate with children, establish a dialogue between the souls, is to be equal, sit down to discuss and discuss, rather than being on the top, a commanding posture, but how many parents understand it?
Children are young and may not be safe, and although the school has held similar seminars, few students can listen to them. Adolescent children, who run away from home without a word, what should they do if they meet a bad person?
Unable to find the child, the parents were anxious, and fortunately the child returned. It is said that impulse is the devil, everyone understands this truth, but children in adolescence, but will not dwell on this matter, do not go along with my wishes will quarrel, love to the depths of the direct run away from home.
In front of the parents, the sky is not afraid, but once they meet the bad guys, their legs are weak and they can't walk, and the children at that time regret it. Maybe only parents will be used to them spoiling them, but children don't understand, just want to blindly take.
Or many years later, this girl will understand the pain of her parents, and at that time, she may also be worried about the growth of her children.
The child's mood can be understood, after all, adolescence is the most beautiful, when going to school, friendship is simple, and people's hearts will not be so complicated. Maybe only experienced to understand, perhaps only lost will cherish, but today's children are not as good as before, every day in the pressure.
Every day in the homework and exams, anyone will be extremely irritable, perhaps parents do not understand the child's mood, it is indeed for the good of the child, but the way of expression is different. Although the burden on children is now reduced, parents dare not relax at all.
Many times, parents think too much, only think about the child's high score, but ignore the child's feelings, and do not teach them how to survive in society, too anxious parents, children in the rebellious period, a word will be contradictory, and even a big fight.
Perhaps for parents, the most important thing to do is to teach their children how to behave and how to survive in society, rather than "points for heroes".
What do you think?