In the story of the first ten episodes of "Heart Residence", my favorite two characters are Zhan Xiang and Ge Yue.
I like Zhan Xiang because he is humorous and funny, affectionate and kind; I like Ge Yue because she is knowledgeable and polite, gentle and generous.
It's just a pity that from the current plot direction, these two good people are difficult to find the simplest happiness.
Zhan Xiang needless to say, although he has been in love with Gu Qingyu for many years, in Gu Qingyu's world, he always has only one friend identity, and Gu Qingyu's heart has always had only her white moonlight.
In the recently updated plot, Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan are already married, no matter how the follow-up story goes down, the possibility of them coming together is already very small.
But in comparison, Zhan Xiang's ending is better, according to the current plot trend, blind guessing at the end of the play, Zhan Xiang is likely to Feng Xiaoqin come together, although we do not like Feng Xiaoqin's calculations, but Feng Xiaoqin after self-reliance, is still very good.
At that time, Zhan Xiang's economic foundation coupled with Feng Xiaoqin's planning and calculation, the strong alliance of them, will definitely have a double harvest of love and career.
On the contrary, Ge Yue, full of expectations for love, married Gu Xin, although now Gu Xin obeys him, but I always feel that in the follow-up story, Gu Xin is likely to fail Ge Yue.
Because the two of them are not compatible at all, this mismatch does not lie in their looks, but in the fact that the two families are not on the same level at all, that is, the old saying that the door is not right.
When I was young, I thought that the door-to-door pair was the old feudal idea, but as I grew older, I felt more and more that getting married really needed to be the door-to-door right.
Of course, the door-to-door pair mentioned here does not only refer to family lineage.
Screenshot of the TV series "Heart House"
Their mismatch has already been revealed since the parents of the two families discussed the marriage of their children.
From Ge Yue's father's words, we know that this is the first time the two parents have met.
Because of the difference in identity and family lineage, Ge Yue's parents are relaxed and natural, while Gu Xin's parents are completely the expression of Liu Grandma entering the Grand View Garden.
It can be seen that in order to see the family, Gu Xin's mother Su Wangdi still carefully dressed up and put on the most expensive fur clothes, just to leave a good impression on the family.
It's just that her elaborate dress, not only did not compete for extra points for herself, but also seemed out of place with the whole environment - because she was wearing too thick, she sweated just after entering the house, but she did not take off her coat in order to support the scene, in The eyes of Ge Yue's mother, this is a joke.
Coupled with the performance of Su Wangdi's fingers, Ge Yue looked down on her even more.
Although we don't like the idea that Ge Yue's mother looks down on people, we have to admit that the two families are not the same type of people at all.
When it comes to the marriage room of the children, for the division of labor of the family to take seven million, Ge Papa is light and breezy, but on the contrary, Gu Shihai's two sons, seven million is to kill them.
(However, although the Gu family and the Ge family are poor, for people like me who will not have more than seven hundred pieces in their pockets, they are already a ceiling that I can't look up to in my lifetime.) ）
One side is just drizzle, the other side is broken, if nothing happens at home, maybe everything is easy to say, if the family encounters difficulties in the future, Gu Xin and their family will most likely take this matter to talk about things.
We often say that poverty limits our imagination, for Ge Dad and Ge Ma, buying a house is for the happiness of their daughters, but for the Gu family, it may feel that Ge Dad and Ge Ma are embarrassed.
Their mismatch was completely exposed when Gu Xin's parents talked to relatives and friends about it.
At the Gu family gathering shortly thereafter, Su Wangdi immediately began to show off.
After announcing the news that her son was going to get married, Su Wangdi began to show the identity of Gu Xin's father-in-law, and also said that they would buy the location of the marriage house.
If it was just a little better, they also pulled Gu Qingyu along the way, saying that Gu Qingyu alone did not need to buy such a big house——
"Qingyu is alone, she lives in such a big house, I tell you, from east to west, it will take a long time, talking and echoing, it is not interesting."
At first, I thought she was simply squeezing Gu Qingyu, but later I found out that the reason why she said this was to show off herself and to prove that their family was better than other people's families.
(Judging from the text on the Internet, the reason why Su Wangdi is like this is related to their family's experience in the past, but no matter how dirty and discordant there have been before, it is somewhat unpleasant to say so in other people's homes.) A good family, like a palace fight. ）
Interestingly, later Gu Shilian changed the house and invited her family to come and see, Su Wangdi's mood was immediately wrong, and she insisted on pulling everyone to see her own house. The security guard stopped them from entering, she also called Gu Xin specifically, and finally It was Ge Yue who opened the door to satisfy her vanity.
From this point of view, Ge Yue's daughter-in-law is the capital for Su Wangdi to show off with their relatives and friends, and as for how the daughter-in-law is, they don't care at all.
If Ge Yue was the daughter of a poor family like Feng Xiaoqin, Su Wangdi's attitude would definitely be greatly reduced.
Their mismatch is also manifested in Gu Xin and Ge Yue's honeymoon trip.
As a child of a rich family, Ge Yue is naturally extravagant about money and spending money, for this, Su Wangdi is very dissatisfied, and has been picky there.
To tell the truth, for ordinary girls, honeymoon travel, the probability is not to bring their in-laws, the reason why she did this is entirely because they are Gu Xin's parents and mothers.
In other words, everything is because she loves Gu Xin.
As a friend said, if you can have a daughter-in-law like Ge Yue, you may wake up laughing in your dreams.
In the process of traveling, Ge Yue did not buy anything for himself, but when he bought gifts for Su Wangdi, he was not ambiguous at all, no matter what he ate, wore, or lived, he tried to pick expensive ones.
I have not read the original work, but blind guess, Ge Yue did this, one is for the happiness of the two of them, the newlyweds naturally want to leave more good memories, as for the second, it may also be because she knows that Gu Shihai and Su Wangdi have suffered all their lives and want them to enjoy it as well.
It is true that from the perspective of a poor person like me, Su Wangdi's statement also has some truth, but this is the intention of her daughter-in-law, and her choice is to hurt Ge Yue's heart.
Although Ge Yue had a good temper, but such a hot face touched a cold ass, naturally there was no way to be happy.
The most heartfelt thing is that because their new house has not yet been delivered, the little two families only need to temporarily borrow and live in the Ge family, and later when the two families return home, Su Wangdi said that the old man was generous on the one hand, and said that his son was raised in vain on the other hand.
Hearing that Gu Xin wanted to accompany Ge Yue's father to the physical examination, she began to yin and yang again.
If it was only Su Wangdi's problem, this problem was not too serious, as long as Gu Xin and Ge Yue truly loved each other, as long as it was not a matter of principle, it could be solved.
From the attitude of Gu Xin's ex-girlfriend, the reason why Gu Xin chose Ge Yue had his purpose, that is, he looked at Ge Yue's family lineage and wanted to use this as a springboard to climb up.
It is not difficult to imagine that once Ge Yue's father has a problem, Gu Xin is likely to kick Ge Yue away.
A few years ago, there has been a popular word - "phoenix man", although I don't like this title, but to be fair, we have to admit that most children with poor family backgrounds, no matter how good they are, but because of their growth experience, they often tend to have one-sided cognition and self-righteousness from nowhere.
We oppose marriages that are not right, not that the children of poor families are not good, but that the family lineage is biased towards the weaker side, because of the growth experience, their vision, their cognition, the probability will be worse.
We admit that with the study and work, their pattern vision will be improved, but these things are definitely not something that can be caught up in a day or two.
If the gap between the two families is too large, sooner or later conflicts will break out.
Happy families are similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, the real parents may not be like Su Wangdi they are snobbish, nor will they be as arrogant as Ge's mother, but once there is a gap in the way of cognition, it is difficult to get together.
To a large extent, marriage is the union of two families or even two families, and it is difficult for two families who are not in the same class to have an equal dialogue; to a small extent, the influence of the original family is likely to follow us for a lifetime, even if we enter marriage, the influence may not disappear.
These differences are likely to become a time bomb between husband and wife.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）