Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law getting along has always been a difficult problem, after all, there is no blood relationship, one is not careful, there will be misunderstandings, if there is another one who holds things in the stomach and makes it bad behind his back, it is bad. Hui Xian has such troubles, she is the kind of person who has a big grin, and she says something directly, which makes her very popular in interpersonal communication, and everyone likes her. However, such a personality is placed on the handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, HuiXian is somewhat naïve, but the mother-in-law is still a difficult to get along with, smiling and squinting on the surface, and doing things behind her back. No, Hui Xian was only married for half a year, she and her mother-in-law had a lot of conflicts, which made her headache, let's take a look at her story.
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Hui Xian is a workaholic, very self-motivated, plus she is doing program development, overtime is commonplace, and sometimes even stay in the company on weekends. For this matter, the mother-in-law did not complain less, because she did not understand the nature of Huixian's work, in her opinion, Huixian just did not want to stay at home, find an excuse to hide in the company. The mother-in-law often complained to her son, asking what Hui Xian was doing and whether she was really so busy, but the reply she got was: "Mom, this is not clear to you, you just need to know that Hui Hui is really busy and very hard." Hearing that her son was not on his side, her mother-in-law became more and more dissatisfied with Huixian. Because she lives close, so the mother-in-law often runs to the home of the two families, and Huixian because of the busy work, she has little energy to take care of the housework, so after the mother-in-law saw a table of dishes and chopsticks confiscated, she specially guarded Huixian at home and accused her of leaving work: "In this home, you are the hostess, what is more important than taking care of the family as a daughter-in-law, can't you wash the dishes for a few minutes before going to work?" Hui Xian was a little embarrassed, and her husband hurriedly maintained: "Mom, Hui Hui worked overtime until midnight yesterday, this meal is still hot for me, I didn't eat two bites to sleep, today before 7 o'clock to go to the company, almost overslept, only washed my face, where there is time to brush the dishes." Probably because the son's maintenance of Huixian is too obvious, since then, the mother-in-law has not counted her down, but will give her small shoes, although it is a small matter, but Huixian is very uncomfortable in her heart, always feel depressed.
That time, the mother-in-law came to the house with a pot of stewed chicken soup, saying that it was to change the taste of the two mouths, but as soon as Hui Xian ate it, she knew that there was a lot of ginger in it, and only she did not eat it at home, and her husband did not eat it. Hui Xian thought about it, didn't say anything, and took two bites, saying that she was full, but her mother-in-law pretended to be kind and said: "Oh, why doesn't Xiao Hui eat, you work so hard, you have to eat some good supplements." At this time, the husband helped on the side: "Yes, you didn't eat a few days ago and said you wanted to drink chicken soup, I thought you didn't have time, I deliberately asked my mother to help me do it, this is a local chicken bought in the market on the outskirts of the city, good things to eat more." Hearing this, Hui Xian was touched and aggrieved, and finally said it, indicating that she did not want to eat, but the ginger flavor was too strong to eat. The husband sensed this, carefully tasted the taste, there was indeed a ginger flavor, and then he began to blame his mother: "Oh, Mom, how many times have I told you, Hui Hui, she does not eat ginger, she can't stand it at all, why put so much ginger on hold." Being counted down by her son, the mother-in-law's face immediately changed, muttered a word of "forgot", Hui Xian also felt a little embarrassed, and quickly came out to play the round field.
On the weekend, Hui Xian followed her husband to her mother-in-law's house for dinner, and happened to have her mother-in-law shopping and brought three chicken legs back, saying that this brine was particularly delicious, so that the two of them could taste it at dinner. Hui Xian was aroused by the worms, but also wanted to taste, but the dish was only half made, the husband was arguing that he was hungry to eat first, Hui Xian reminded when he saw it: "Husband, my mother bought three chicken legs, it should be one of us, how did you take two?" The husband explained: "When I went to serve dinner, my mother said that I had been too hard lately, give me one more, you can rest assured, my mother said not to eat, wait for the next one is yours." Hui Xian thought about it too, her husband has been really hard lately, so he went. After the husband had eaten, she went to the study, and after the mother-in-law made the last two dishes, she beckoned HuiXian to eat together, and as a result, she saw the remaining chicken legs in the mother-in-law's bowl, and there was an empty bowl in front of her. Hui Xian only felt that she had been posed by her mother-in-law again, and in an instant a wave of grievances surged into her heart, and those accumulated resentments suddenly reached the peak, so she calmly asked: "Mom, is this chicken leg still there?" I also want to eat one. As if she hadn't heard, the mother-in-law grabbed the chicken leg and took a bite, and then suddenly looked at Hui Xian with great understanding: "Huh? Are you talking to me? I didn't hear it, this chicken leg is one, I have bitten, do you still eat? This was simply a naked mockery, so she dropped the chopsticks: "Mom, what do you have any opinions and complaints about me, you can say it bluntly, it's really not okay, let's have a fight, you are changing the law against me, excluding me, what's the matter?" The husband heard the voice at this time, and also quickly came out, the mother-in-law continued to act that Hui Xian thought too much, he did not mean that, Hui Xian was even more aggrieved to shed tears: "How much do I think? You all have it, but I don't, is this the first time? Go home and the next strip, that egg you and he have, I don't, what price of eggs, our family is lacking or what? The mother-in-law suddenly stopped talking, and Hui Xian continued: "Mom, after such a long time, you still can't understand my temperament, I don't like to bend and turn, and I think I haven't done anything sorry for you, you hate me so much?" Even if you are dissatisfied with me, let's sit down and talk, everything is spread out, you really don't need to be so disgusting with me, okay? After saying that, Hui Xian went straight away.
In fact, it is no wonder that Hui Xian will be so aggrieved, she is a straight son who does not like to hide, but the mother-in-law is a person with a small belly and chicken intestines, on the surface it is good for her, but in fact it squeezes her, which makes her happy? Is that what you mean?