When every man reaches the marriageable age when he or she should marry and start a family, he receives advice from friends and family. Among them, the words of your parents are particularly important, and they are worth listening to and must be listened to, because they are the people who care about you the most.
What kind of woman is a good partner? What kind of woman must not marry? Highly emotionally intelligent mothers will remind their sons:
There are three kinds of women, no matter how beautiful they are, they can't marry.
Lazy woman
There is a slang saying that goes like this: "Marry a man, dress and eat." Marry a wife, cook and wash. "Although the words are superficial, the truth is true.
A man and a woman form a family, like a cooperative group. If you want to cooperate happily, you must be diligent and not lazy.
Ming Dynasty writer Feng Menglong said:
Riches have no roots, and they come from diligence
。 ”
For a family, only by working together can the husband and wife make the days richer, more and more steadfast, and more and more ambitious.
If you marry a lazy woman and rely only on men to work for the family alone, not to mention that one person is tired of doing two people's work, the spirit of struggle alone will be greatly reduced.
Over time, men are easily aggrieved and complained, and the affection between husband and wife is not so deep.
Of course, there are many men who are willing to work hard for their families, but it is certain that all men want to have women to support and accompany them all the way when they work hard. Lazy women can't do that.
There are roughly two types of laziness in women:
Lazy to do things, lazy to use heart
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Lazy women are reluctant to do housework at home, unwilling to do business outside the home, and unwilling to spend time and energy to enrich and improve themselves.
When a man marries a lazy woman, he faces a life that is roughly like this: the family is dirty and messy, and the life is disorganized; the woman's work and career have no sense of accomplishment; the woman becomes a yellow-faced woman who lives a negative life.
Imagine which man would want to live such a family life? Faced with such wives and partners?
Lazy women are actually even more unmarried.
Living a life is like boiling water on the stove, and you must continue to add firewood and continue to fire to keep the heat of the water undiminished.
Lazy women who refuse to pay attention are weak and widowed, and they do not pay attention to their families, husbands, children, and in-laws, and in time, the result is naturally that the fire is cold.
Lazy women will make their days more and more boring, and such a woman, no matter how beautiful she looks, cannot marry.
Bad women
If marrying a lazy woman will make men frown, then marrying a bad woman will make men regret not being the first.
Bad women are divided into two types according to the degree of badness:
The small bad that lacks good character, the big bad that lacks the concept of right and wrong
Napoleon famously said of women: "The hand that pushes the cradle is the hand that pushes the earth." "It's about the importance of women to families, especially children.
The mother is the child's first and most important teacher, teaching by example, imperceptibly, and has a huge impact.
A picture that appeared on the Internet the other day caused a hot discussion: two mothers sitting side by side with their respective children on the subway. On the one hand, the polite and well-mannered mother and the clean and well-behaved children are quietly reading, while the mother with heavy makeup and flirtatious posture and the brazen child are making loud noises.
A woman with good character is a high-quality textbook in herself, and the offspring raised will be pure, if not a pillar of material.
And the bad woman who lacks good character is also a textbook, but the printing is poor and the content is unbearable, and it is self-evident what a child who grows up reading this book will look like.
So-called"
One generation has no good wife, and three generations have no good children
That's why.
The above is the woman's small bad, and the bad woman who is classified as a big bad below, not only can not marry, but even close to the close must be careful.
Remember the Chongqing sister and brother crash case? The results of the follow-up investigation caused a national uproar and everyone was indignant.
A young and beautiful woman who, for her own sake, actually forced and assisted her boyfriend to kill her own children, is really extremely fearful.
There is also the female demon leader Lao Rongzhi, who brutally killed 7 innocent people, who fled in hiding for 20 years and was arrested, and he can smile calmly in the face of the police, beautiful as a flower. Such a woman, people are chilling.
This kind of big bad woman who has no concept of right and wrong, let alone marry, even avoids it when she meets it.
Good women prosper for three generations, and bad women ruin a person's life.
A bad woman is a poppy flower, and no matter how beautiful she is, a man cannot marry.
Greedy women
Greed is human nature, and there is nothing wrong with it. But excessive greed is the unconstrained wild horse and the bottomless black hole, and there is always one
sky
Trample and engulf people.
Highly EQ mothers will surely remind their sons:
covet
Women, no matter how beautiful they are, cannot marry.
It is said that men are rational animals and women are emotional animals.
It is precisely because the sensibility in a woman's nature is given priority, so there can be no greed. Once a woman has greed, she will lose her originally few rational constraints and become a black hole that only knows how to absorb, and the consequences are unimaginable.
There are roughly two types of greedy women:
Greed for money, greed for sex
Women who are greedy for money mostly worship gold every day, and they are eager for famous brands and luxury goods.
If their financial ability is not enough to cope with material requirements, they will go to the crooked road to seek shortcuts, such as clinging to capable men, and slowly becoming men's appendages and playthings.
Women who are more greedy for money will even do it themselves to make money and satisfy their desires.
Which man would dare to marry such a greedy woman?
Women's greed will not only be for money, but also for people,
namely
Greed.
Everyone has a heart for beauty, and it is normal to look at the pleasing opposite sex a few times, but when it comes to the point of greed, it is very dangerous.
Women are greedy, light and lack of distance from the opposite sex, not self-respecting, do not know how to refuse. The heavy ones take the initiative to pounce, without shame.
Two years ago, a certain actress's "hair doing" incident was well known to everyone, and the cause was only the appreciation of her rap brother, and then greed gradually arose, ignoring her husband and daughter, and finally made a happy family fragmented, laughing generously.
To get such a result is self-inflicted for a woman. As for the husband, the sky is flying green only because he married a greedy woman.
Greedy women are a whirlpool, and no matter how beautiful they are, men cannot marry.
The one who understands women best must be women. So every mother knows what kind of woman is a good woman and what kind of woman a son cannot marry.
High emotional intelligence mother reminds her son: lazy, bad, greedy three kinds of women, no matter how beautiful they look, can not marry
Lazy women can't marry, she will drag down a man's body and mind like a scale.
Bad women can't marry, she will infect a man's offspring and family like poison.
Greedy women cannot marry, she will hurt the dignity and dignity of men like a knife.
A woman is a home
geomancy
, is a man's partner. I'd rather not marry than marry
wrong
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