Finding a good man is really a particularly important thing for a woman, and it is related to whether the woman will be happy for the rest of her life. A good man can fill a woman's eyes with light, and it can also make the light in a woman's eyes disappear.
There are always elderly people who tell us that we must keep our eyes open when looking for a partner, but now people are too good at disguise, and they are not alone at all before and after marriage, which makes people feel caught off guard.
All kinds of sweet words before marriage make people feel that this emotional intelligence is very high, and various commitments before marriage also make women move. After marriage, they beat and scolded women, which made people feel particularly angry, especially for the parties.
On March 18, in Weifang, Shandong Province, a woman shared a video that went viral. Before the woman married her husband, her husband gave her the feeling of being practical and diligent, but having children after marriage was like a changed person, which made the woman very distressed.
When in love, the wind and snow, after marriage, chai rice oil and salt, if there is no certain ability to adapt to the two people is difficult to maintain the family.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage is a test for the family, there are always people who are particularly unaccustomed to their daughter-in-law, and there are always people who stand on the side of their families regardless of right and wrong.
The woman in Weifang, Shandong Province, quarreled with her mother-in-law after marriage because of a small matter, and her husband came back from playing cards outside without asking the reason, and directly gave the woman a slap, not caring at all that the woman had just given birth not long after giving birth.
The woman was very sad, and she had been lying in the bed, and she did not eat or drink water, which made the man feel a lot of headaches. The man felt particularly sad and said bluntly: Didn't you just slap it, as for?
The woman thought twice or decided to leave the man, so many years she has had enough, the man does not consider the hardships of the woman to bear children for him, only to blindly blame the woman.
The woman was about to leave with her suitcase, and the man felt that something was wrong and persuaded the woman to come back. Although the woman was disappointed in the man and her in-laws, she stayed because she was reluctant to have her children.
Some netizens felt very sad when they saw that scene, and made an evaluation: if it is my words, directly take the child away, directly sue for divorce, and do not have to do it yourself.
Some netizens are very speechless about your tits, saying: Being able to marry such a wife is a blessing for the elders to cultivate, and your slap on the past makes you feel comfortable, and her heart will hurt for a lifetime and will remember for a lifetime.
Kotani's view:
In a family, there is no quarrel between husband and wife; if you have been with the elderly, the living habits and life concepts are different, and it will cause contradictions, which are understandable.
Sometimes young people can't stand to talk back to the old man, just vent, now the young people are very civilized, not particularly serious things will not quarrel with the old man.
When there is a quarrel, the man slaps the woman in black and white, which makes people feel angry, perhaps it is not the woman who is at fault, but the woman's mother-in-law.
Through the performance of men all the time and the words spoken by men, men are particularly excessive, not only scolding women but also saying hurtful words to women, which makes people feel angry.
After all, the woman chose the wrong person, but she was reluctant to leave for her children. What does marriage bring to a woman, and what does a child bring to a family?
At the end of the day, the child is only tied to the woman, and no one else but the woman is affected. The woman did not leave for the time being because the injury was not complete enough, and when she was completely cold one day, she might leave.
I hope that this man will take advantage of the fact that the woman is still a little reluctant to the child, and behave himself well, instead of being idle all day, instead of scolding the woman all day, once the scolding is gone, it is too late to regret it.