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What is the harm of mobile phones to children?
A recent northwestern university study found that using a smartphone for more than 68 minutes a day is at a high risk of depression. In fact, this is not difficult to understand, the mobile phone seems to facilitate the contact between people, but often the family sits on the sofa, each playing their own mobile phone, what problems, unhappy and do not communicate in person, put in the heart of the more things, naturally it is easy to be depressed.
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Poor self-control
Children who love to play with mobile phones generally have poor self-control. This is because the information inside the mobile phone is complex and rich, as long as you open the mobile phone, basically everything you want can be seen and bought. This leads to children who are easy to extricate themselves from a large amount of network information, unable to develop good self-control, and easy to form a grumpy personality. Playing mobile phones for more than 1 hour a day, after 3-4 years, self-control will lag behind its peers.
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Affects vision development
As we all know, electronic products such as mobile phones and computers have a very great impact on children's vision. After the age of 12, the child's retina is fully mature, and the child's premature overuse of the eyes can easily lead to the formation of myopia in the child, or the appearance of retinal detachment, etc., which will affect the child's vision greatly. Therefore, before the child is 12 years old, parents still try to let the child play with mobile phones, watch TV, and protect the child's vision.
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Causes inattention
Children addicted to playing mobile phones will lead to their lack of concentration, and, accustomed to communicating with people through mobile phones, lack of certain communication skills, over time, it is easy for children to become cowardly, lonely, paranoid, affecting the thinking mode.
5. Affect the quality of sleep
Some parents, used to let children play a mobile phone before going to bed, watch some cartoons, do not know, playing mobile phones before going to bed will always make children's minds always think of a variety of pictures in the screen, thus affecting the quality of sleep, research shows that the average sleep time of children with mobile phones around them is 21 minutes shorter than that of children without mobile phones around them.
So how to keep your child from getting hurt by your phone?
1. Force your child to quit mobile phones
Since the status quo of children addicted to mobile phones must be changed, then it is better to be fierce, resolutely do not give when the child wants a mobile phone, and hide the electronic products of everyone in the family, or put them in the place where the child cannot reach, the child may cry and make a fuss for a while, but will not make a fuss all day, or two days or three days, but will not continue to make trouble. Through this forced isolation, children can know the determination of their parents, and at the same time, they can understand that there is nothing wrong with not playing with mobile phones, so that they can slowly get out of the state of being controlled by mobile phones
2. Emotionally soothe your child
In the process of compulsory withdrawal of mobile phones, because the mother needs to resolutely stand on the opposite side of the child, say no to the child, but also ignore the child's crying, in the face of sudden such parents, the child may also have uneasy emotions, so in this process, it is also very important to calm the baby's emotions. In addition to not being able to give the mobile phone, the mother can hold the crying baby, or coax the lost baby, the child is relieved to give him a reason, but also tell the child that the parents still love you.
3. Divert your child's attention
Parents can observe more about which application their child likes in the mobile phone and replace this application with other toys or methods. If you find that your child likes to press the number key with your hand, buy a toy piano for your child to explore with him; if you find that your child likes pictures on your phone, you may wish to divert his attention with a funny story picture book, which is very effective for helping your child quit mobile phones.
4. Parents should lead by example
Children's love to play with mobile phones is related to the fact that parents are not in place with their babies, and they do not play a good demonstration role, or in order to facilitate the use of children, they directly throw their children to mobile phones when they are young. Many of a child's behaviors begin with imitation, and the parent is the object of his initial imitation. Whatever the parent does, the child will learn. Therefore, the role model of parents is particularly important. It is recommended that parents play with their children more, and then work with their children to establish a healthy model of using mobile phones, such as stipulating how long each person can play mobile phones per day, and then complying with their children, believing that such a complete process can become a milestone in changing children.
5. Bring more children to participate in outdoor activities
Take your children to participate in outdoor activities, parties, travel, although parents will be very tired in the process, but you will find that when playing with children and exploring the real world together, you have become less needy to look at mobile phones all the time, and children will not remember mobile phones.
The field of vision of the mobile phone can make the child's vision broad, and it can make the child become narrow and stop moving forward. It is recommended that children watch TV and play mobile phones for more than 30 minutes within a day, and guide children to pay more attention to the world outside mobile phones in time to avoid children addicted to mobile phones and unable to extricate themselves.
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