Compared with the older generation, there are many conceptual differences in raising children, in the eyes of young parents, the ideas of the older generation are too traditional, or unscientific, which will bring greater harm to the children, but many elderly people are more stubborn, insisting on their own paranoid ideas, resulting in a lot of contradictions between the two.
But there is no way, after all, the life pressure of young people is relatively large, there is no condition to hire a professional nanny, only to be able to hand over the child to the elderly to bring, if there is no best training for the elderly in advance, it is likely that there will be many unexpected situations.
Case: Two-year-old male treasure almost lost fertility, learned the reason, Bao Mom angrily rebuked her mother-in-law, "You continue to save"
Xiao Zheng and her husband married for two years after giving birth to a small male treasure, in the child to take the child to about two years old, because the family life pressure is really big, so Xiao Zheng plans to go to the field with her husband to work, just have a relatively high salary job, so let the mother-in-law to take the child, the mother-in-law confidently said that there is no problem, after all, it is also a person who has taken the baby, it is an old predecessor.
Xiao Zheng is the only one who is not at ease with the parenting methods of the elderly, especially in the aspect of frugality, before the elderly even said that in order to save milk powder, let the children eat complementary foods early, and said that many children in the past were four or five months to eat complementary foods, people are also very strong. But Xiao Zheng just doesn't agree, other aspects may be saved, this aspect is absolutely not OK.
So before Xiao Zheng left, Qian Dingwan instructed her mother-in-law, "Others can be saved, but the key aspects of the child must not be saved", and the mother-in-law also responded. But the fact is that after the mother-in-law took over the child, the diet was fine, but the little guy's diapers were really expensive, a pack of diapers hundreds, it didn't take a few days to finish, the old man was really distressed, so he didn't let the child continue to use diapers, but gave the child a diaper.
The old man is more frugal, those diapers are the original child's father used, still retained, and are yellow, there are a lot of moldy spots, but the old man feels that there is no problem, wash and dry a clean, and then give the child to use the diaper.
As a result, who could have predicted that in less than a week, the child's urine began to bubble, and the color was also very yellow, when the old man thought that the child was on fire, so he let the child drink more boiled water. After another week, the child had a red ass, and the skin began to ulcerate, and the same was true near the genital area, so the old man began to panic, quickly took the child to the hospital, and notified Xiao Zheng.
Xiao Zheng rushed back from the field and learned from the doctor that the child had a serious urinary tract infection, which almost hurt his fertility, which was probably caused by improper use of diapers. After learning the reason, Xiao Zheng really couldn't believe it, he had only been gone for less than a month, the two-year-old baby became like this, directly angrily rebuked his mother-in-law, "You continue to save, you see what your only grandson can save!" ”
Xiao Zheng's mother-in-law also felt extremely regretful, she did not expect to become like this, and she was also guilty of her little grandson, and she did not dare to save in these aspects after that.
In fact, as many older generations think, children's diapers in the past were also used well, and they did not see how children were. In fact, according to statistics, children who used diapers in the past will more or less have problems such as red butts or inflammation. This is because the material of the diaper is poor, it is easy to wear the skin of the child's genitals and buttocks, resulting in irritation, coupled with the poor permeability of the diaper, long-term masking in the pants, bacteria are easy to breed in a large number of short periods of time, causing infection problems, and the use of diapers will be much better than these.
In addition, the diaper also has a more obvious disadvantage, that is, the diaper needs to be cleaned and dried after use, if it is not cleaned, or not completely dried, in the event of cloudy days or rainy days, etc., it will lead to bacterial residue and continue to breed, which will become a natural bacterial cloth. Imagine if in this case, the child is given this diaper to use, the child's immunity and resistance are lower than adults, and it is more likely to have problems.
Moreover, it should also be noted that do not compare the children of the past with the children of the present, after all, the living environment has undergone great changes, the living conditions have become better, and the children's physique has higher requirements for the environment, so it is necessary for parents to take more delicate care, otherwise it is easy to have small diseases one after another.
Finally, I also hope that when young people give their children to the elderly, it is best to communicate with the elderly and tell the elderly in advance how to take the children. Usually, the elderly are willing to cooperate with young parents for the sake of their children, after all, everyone's purpose is to make their children more healthy, no one wants to see their children suffer, and patient communication during this period is the best way.