It is said that love does not distinguish between age, regardless of identity, you can fall in love with a man who is dozens of years older than you, and you may also fall in love with a divorced woman, the former may be easy to fall in love, the latter is not easy.
A boy falls in love with a divorced woman who says they're okay with me, and they talk and eat together on a daily basis, but when it comes to establishing a relationship, she dodges.
You say she doesn't like me, why doesn't she reject me, and if she likes me, then why does her confession to me reject you?
In fact, in addition to some of them may be wanting to indulge, more divorced women reject a new relationship because they are very sensitive, whether you are attentive to him, to a certain extent to her heart, she is very clear in her heart.
It can only be said that you have not fully met her requirements for love or marriage again, so she would rather be alone than accept.
Another reason is that she has not yet come out of the shadow of the previous relationship, and she has not yet established a foundation of trust in the future relationship.
This trust is not necessarily for you alone, but for the overall love disappointment, she does not dare to easily gamble her time, or the rest of her life.
So I'd rather miss it than start it easily.
The previous relationship must have hurt her fiercely, she gave her youth, time, feelings, and finally was full of bruises.
And at the beginning, the other party must be good to her, the two people have also had a happy time, but it has changed, how can she judge that the people in front of her will not be different, and how to judge that the feelings in front of her are worth cherishing and should not let go?
So you want to chase her, at this time only the mentality, don't be anxious, she will retreat in a hurry, because she thinks you just want to get her quickly, and then no one knows the direction of the feelings.
Since all you have tasted is the bitterness of love, don't start easily.
So if you really love her, then continue to be with her, at least let her believe that maybe there is really love, and that you are not a whim.
First of all, you have to create more opportunities to get close to her.
As the saying goes, "day by day, day by day", the two people have been together for a long time, naturally there will be more feelings and habits, and they will naturally be together in the future.
Because trust arises, it is the cornerstone of feelings.
Second, throw in what you like and attack seven inches
People have their own hobbies, many people in love have to find a compatible person, how to judge the fit, that is, there is a common topic.
She likes to watch movies, you start with movies, like to read books, discuss literature with her, like gossip, and you can come to a few rounds.
The two people have a conversation before they can continue.
Then send charcoal in the snow
A person will always encounter a lot of difficulties in society, especially divorced women, who may have a lot of dissatisfaction in life and work.
This is your best reality, as the saying goes, there are more icing on the cake, and fewer charcoal in the snow.
Find this opportunity to care for her, help her, she will definitely remember in her heart, touch, and then fall in love with you.
Invite her to meet with your friends, for example, if there is an event, invite her to participate, let her slowly integrate into your life, and make her feel that you are serious about her.
If she has children and her parents are close, that is your better chance, because if a divorced woman has children, the most important thing she cares about is whether you will be good to her children and be good to her children, basically winning a big half.
The most important thing to chase after a divorced woman is not to be in a hurry, first gain her trust, and then make her feel that you really value her, rather than playing for a few days and ending.
There is no definite number of feelings, but if you pay, there is still no result, then there will be no regrets in the future.
END
Interpret emotional confusion, pay attention to marriage problems, and be willing to listen to your sorrow and happiness, along the way