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For parents, the arrival of children is happy, but also cautious and important. Take the growth of children, children can not have a little negligence, otherwise they may let their children be hurt. In addition, parents should also think carefully, can not casually give the child a name, because the name will follow their children for a lifetime, if not treated well, will make the child suffer unnecessarily in the future days.
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For example, Xiao Zhang, the last wife of his had just given birth to a son, and they had been struggling for several days about what exactly this son was called. Because Xiao Zhang and his wife are both only children in the family, they both hope that their children can have the same surname as themselves. For Xiao Zhang, most children have always been surnamed with their father, if it is said that now their children are not the same surname as themselves, then it is easy to be looked down upon by relatives around them, and even there will be a lot of people to ask. For the wife, she feels that it is very difficult for her to have children, so it is very normal to want her children to have the same surname as herself.
The "pseudo-compound surname" name is coming, and parents think it sounds good, but they don't expect the child to be bitter and can't say it
Just when the two people did not know what to do, suddenly they thought of a way to fake the surname, that is, the child's name is composed of the parents' surname. Xiao Zhang is surnamed Zhang, and his wife's surname is Yang, and in this way, their children are called Zhang Yang. At the beginning, the two people did not feel that there was anything wrong with such a name, and even they were very comfortable in their hometown dialect. Just later, after the child went to class, things happened.
The child's first day in kindergarten has been teased by the surrounding classmates, because in their eyes, Zhang Yang's name is too public, so it is very funny. At this time, Xiao Zhang and his wife found out for the first time that the original child's name was not very good, and it would cause a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings, so in the end they finally decided to change the name of their son.
In fact, not only the Xiaozhang family has a false surname, but now many children are named in this way. Because their parents just want their children to be more intimate with their parents, but there are also such consequences, such as the following three points.
First of all, these names will be relatively tongue-twisting. As we all know, it is very difficult to use the surname to make a name, because the surname and the surname itself are very unpleasant to read. Now parents are also in order to catch up with the trend or to make their children able to be intimate with themselves, so they have made this behavior. This is actually very bad, because such a name sounds very strange, and then there is no special meaning.
Secondly, it is very easy to produce harmonic sounds, and then be ridiculed by their classmates and so on. In fact, such a thing is the most serious, because of the problem of harmonics, many children have been ridiculed by everyone when they are young. For an adult, such ridicule may be nothing, but for a small child, ridicule is a very scary thing, which is likely to affect their inner health development. Therefore, parents still have to take the issue of their children's names seriously. Although you can change the name later, but changing the name is also a very tedious thing, rather than this, it is better to give the child a good name in the morning.
Finally, such a name is more difficult to accept. Although it is very interesting to say such a name, for some people, they will feel that this is a very irresponsible thing, and even some children will be said behind their backs, so it seems that in order to reduce the occurrence of such things, parents still want to think of other ways to name their children.
In fact, it is normal for parents to want their own words to appear in their children's names, which is also possible. After all, compared with the last name, the word will always be better, and it is better to take a name. Therefore, if parents still want to take names in this way in the future, they may wish to use their surname to combine with their wives' words, or use some harmonic words to combine, so that they can get a relatively nice and smooth name!
Through today's events, I have to say that the children's affairs are really too troublesome, and the parents are too patient. It is said that when a person really grows up is when he has children, yes, through this article, you can see how much parents need to pay for their children, how careful they have to be to cultivate a healthy child, so we still don't forget to be filial to their parents.
Author's message: Their parents will always support themselves behind their backs, and maybe sometimes they will make mistakes, such as not getting a relatively good name, but please rest assured that they still love themselves.
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