Valentine's Day, also known as St. Valentine's Day or St. Valentine's Day, dates on February 14 of the Gregorian calendar every year, is one of the traditional holidays in Western countries, originated in Christianity, and has now become a famous romantic festival around the world.
In Ankang, many young people will pay attention to the arrival of this day, prepare flowers or gifts for the object in advance, buy two movie tickets to spend together, and prepare for mutual love. For those who are already married, how do they feel about Valentine's Day? On the afternoon of February 13, a reporter from Huashang Daily and Ersanli Information came to the street to visit.
Mr. Zhang took his family to play in the square, and he said that he would still spend Valentine's Day after marriage, but it would be relatively simple, mainly because of the reason of having children. Mr. Zhang told reporters: "In the past, when I was in love, I would buy flowers for my wife, and I would watch movies and eat together. After marriage, it will still be lived, but it is not as grand as before, mainly for life reasons, and it is more practical to think. For this year's Valentine's Day, Mr. Zhang said that he is ready to bring his family to dinner together.
In the interview, Ms. Wang said that the last time she spent Valentine's Day was more than a decade ago, when the subject would take her to dinner, watch movies and buy flowers. Ms. Wang smiled and said, "At that time, I was not married, and now I am older, and I have two children." ”
The reporter came to Xing'an Park again, and Mr. Xia, who passed by, told reporters: "In the past two years, I will take care of my children, occasionally celebrate Valentine's Day, and I will buy some small gifts in advance to send a bouquet of flowers and the like, in addition to Valentine's Day, I will send some gifts to my wife during general holidays." She will prepare a little in advance, and she will be happy to see the surprise. Regarding Valentine's Day, Mr. Xia said that he would prefer to spend the traditional Chinese Qixi Festival, but Valentine's Day, as an international holiday, will not be a holiday, so he can only mean it.
The reporter came to the Xing'an market, Mr. Liu, who was busy, stopped the work in his hand, he told the reporter: "Married for many years are old husbands and wives, Valentine's Day is a young man, it means little to me, this life has not sent flowers to my object, but in life we can still feel the atmosphere of love, husband and wife mutual understanding and struggle for life, has contained a lot of things." ”
Mr. Dai, who was next to him, said with a smile in the interview: "This year's Valentine's Day is going out with my wife to eat hot pot, usually rarely give gifts, because the economic power is not in my hands, I can operate the economic scope is only double digits, it is difficult to achieve any gifts." However, according to Mr. Dai's wife, Mr. Dai often prepares some surprises for her in life, such as rings, necklaces, etc. The conversation is overflowing with an indescribable sense of happiness.
Maybe it's because of family chores, busy work, or maybe it's because of old age, for many married people, the way they express their feelings is more subtle. On Valentine's Day, they will more or less silently accompany their lovers, take their children to visit the park, eat hot pot, and pay more attention to life than the ritual sense of flowers and movie tickets. Husband and wife work together for a better life, it is also a kind of happiness, love the right person, every day is Valentine's Day.
Huashang Daily reporter Cheng Bin Editor Wu Ning Guo Zhongyan