A month ago, my brother and sister-in-law died unexpectedly in a car accident, leaving 2 poor children, and I couldn't bear to see them and adopted them. The girlfriend's mother gave the order to die, wanting her daughter to marry

A month ago, my brother and sister-in-law died unexpectedly in a car accident, leaving 2 poor children, and I couldn't bear to see them and adopted them. My girlfriend's mother gave the death order that if she wanted her daughter to marry me, she had to send the child away, and her girlfriend was on her mother's side. I got tangled up and made the most painful decision in my life!

I am 28 years old, I have known my girlfriend for 7 years, there are two children in the family, but neither of them is biological, the boy is 7 years old, the girl is 5 years old, both are my brother-in-law's children, why do they live in our house, because an unexpected car accident took the life of my brother-in-law, and also made the two children orphaned.

My parents passed away very early, my sister-in-law is from Guizhou, but I have never seen her return to her mother's house, the situation in her hometown is not very well understood, my brother and sister-in-law are gone, these two children have become very pitiful, I am their only relative.

My job is a marketing specialist, our hometown is at most a third- and fourth-tier city, the average month is about 5,000 yuan, this salary is good in the local area, but if you want to support two children, it is still a little difficult, after all, the cost of children is now very large.

My brother was 7 years older than me, when he was 12 years old, his parents were gone, he was admitted to college that year, but he chose to drop out, and the teachers at school were sorry for him, because our family was rural, the family's economic conditions were not good, and he could not afford the tuition, my brother took on the responsibility of his parents, he came to support the family, which made me still moved.

Now because of the accident, the brothers and sisters-in-law have passed away one after another, the eyes of these two children are pitiful, they have not yet figured out what is going on with their parents, I am the uncle of the child, and their relatives shoulder the responsibility of taking care of them. Some say there is no legal obligation to say that when a parent dies, brothers must take care of them, but if I don't come, who can give these two children a good childhood.

Now that I have been taking over for a month, I have found that things are more troublesome than I thought, not because I am afraid of not being able to raise children, but because my girlfriend's parents are firmly opposed to me doing so, especially her mother, who does not agree to marry her daughter to me if she does not send the child away.

My girlfriend and I met in college, we have been 7 years now, although we live together, but we have not yet had a wedding, we have not received a license, we bought a house in our small city last year, and we plan to get married this year. There was an unexpected storm in the sky, my brother and sister-in-law were gone because of the car accident, seeing the child so pitiful, I took the child to the new house, although the girlfriend was unwilling, but also knew that my brother had a nurturing kindness to me, and did not say anything.

After the nephew and niece took over, my girlfriend also learned to take care of the children, maybe she has no experience, plus in fact, she is also grumpy, so it is not very good to get along with the children, my brother's children are small, but very naughty, they like to play with their girlfriend's cosmetics, and also like to spend flowers on the wall of my house, which makes my girlfriend very angry.

I said that they were still young, their parents were gone, they needed us to teach, and my girlfriend suddenly became mad: "I am not their mother, let me teach, what can I teach?" "Obviously, she doesn't like her sister-in-law's children now, because we don't have children yet, we don't communicate with children very well, and we don't know much about children's temperament.

The next day my girlfriend's mother arrived at my house, her face looked very unhappy, and said to me straight to the point: "These two children must be sent away, whether you are sent to other families or to welfare homes, but you can't stay here!" "I listened and explained to my girlfriend's mother that they were my brother's children, and I was their only relative, and I couldn't leave them alone.

The girlfriend's mother was even more angry: "Xiao Hao, do you really understand things, you keep two children, let my daughter suffer with you, do you know how difficult it is for society to raise two children today?" I was silent, and her mother continued, "My daughter will have to give you at least one or two children in the future, and you are now paid this little salary a month, so why should I make my daughter excited?" ”

At this time, the children were also around, they seemed to understand, and then took my hand and said, "Uncle, please don't send us away, I will listen to my aunt in the future." "As soon as my heart softened, I told my girlfriend's mother that this child really had to stay, and it was my responsibility.

At this point, her mother was completely angry: "You don't listen to my words now, do you?" I can't control your desire to do good deeds, but my daughter's happiness must intervene, give you three days, and if the child does not send away, don't think that I will marry my daughter to you! ”

My girlfriend and I have been talking for 7 years, the relationship has always been very good, this time it is really difficult, at night she cried and called me, her mother and I said during the day is serious, if I don't send the child away, I can't marry you!

My girlfriend also advised me: "I am not embarrassed for you, but what my mother said is also reasonable, the burden of more two children is too heavy, and we will pay back our own babies in the future, so many children will really torture us very painfully, if you really want to keep them, we must break up." ”

At night I really insomnia a night, the whole person turned over, I chose to leave the child, after all, my brother once had a kindness, I still remember it, but this can only be sorry for my girlfriend, our 7 years of emotions, ready to soak together for a lifetime of vows, may not be able to achieve, do you think I chose the right choice? #Emotion# #情感情感 #