8. How to use "ritual" to manage love?
We had a simple lunch, and my husband started preparing Chinese New Year's Eve meal.
I started plating, melon seeds peanuts, fruit snacks, and brewed a pot of golden eyebrows.
I called out my husband, who was seriously cooking, and gave him a cookie that my colleague had made himself, and he ate a piece of it, saying it was so delicious that it was comparable to the cookies he used to sell.
Life must have a sense of ceremony, in addition to each festival on the calendar do not let go, we must also treat those seemingly ordinary little things in life with our hearts, find ways and cultivate a sense of ritual with our hearts.
The so-called ritual is like the French fairy tale "The Little Prince": it is to make a certain day different from other days, to make a certain moment different from other moments.
How to make a bland family life shine, adding rituals is the best way.
For example, couples wear couple clothes, or the whole family wears a set of family clothes to travel, the mood is happy, not to mention, wherever you go, it is a beautiful scenery;
Touching a glass before eating, saying a few warm words, looking at each other and laughing and starting to eat, just like Westerners praying before meals, is also a sense of ceremony.
The sense of ceremony can be to keep snuggling together before going to bed every day, reading a beautiful article together, making progress together, telling a joke, laughing together, watching a movie, and crying sadly together.
The sense of ceremony can be to take a family portrait every year at the same moment, in front of the same background, leaving the warmest memories.
The sense of ceremony can be a kiss before and after leaving the door.
I, the "thinker", thought a lot about the sense of ceremony, and my husband had already kept Chinese New Year's Eve the meal busy.
Farewell to the old reunion to welcome the Year of the Tiger, chicken, duck and fish meat is complete.
With a glass of warm rice wine, Chinese New Year's Eve night dinner began.
Eat a good Chinese New Year's Eve meal, we both began to learn to dance, my husband recommended me to learn to dance the small video, is a very loving little couple to dance, watch them dance easily, simple and simple natural, we jump up, busy hands, hands and feet are not coordinated, not yet jump for a while on the tired.
Unable to jump, we posed up and started taking selfies, and found that the selfie remote control did not listen to the call.
At 8 o'clock, the spring festival gala of Chinese New Year's Eve night began.
I was stunned by the Spring Festival Gala's "Only This Green".
The dancers were able to put "A Thousand Miles of Rivers and Mountains" on the stage and watch the mountains and rivers undulating and layered.
It is really "horizontal into the side of the mountain into a peak, far and near the height is different", coupled with the accompaniment of the guqin, the magnificent interpretation of the motherland's mountains and rivers is vividly interpreted, stirring people's hearts.
The Spring Festival Gala was not over, the two people were sleepy, did not keep the age, climbed into bed and fell asleep.
#这就是年味儿 #
