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When there is a problem with the relationship between husband and wife, women should not immediately put on a sour face and try to persuade men with morality. It's like xiu just meets a soldier, and you don't care about three seven twenty-one as soon as you come up

author:Tang Xianyuan

When there is a problem with the relationship between husband and wife, women should not immediately put on a sour face and try to persuade men with morality.

It's like Xiu Cai meets a soldier, and as soon as you come up, you don't care about three or seven twenty-one, you are full of benevolence and morality, and you seem to be very noble.

In fact, your words are buzzing in the ears of the big soldier, and he is patient if he kicks you away.

Why can't others listen to your words?

First, the framework you are adhering to at this moment is different, your framework is benevolence and morality, and his framework is to weigh the pros and cons.

You desperately want him to agree, but you can't just pull hard and try to get it right.

When a person approves of something different from what you approve of, he is not willing to be pulled by you.

What about couples? What about intimacy? If the relationship goes wrong, it means that the things agreed by both sides are different. At this time, you are pulling hard, which can only make people more annoying.

When two people have different frames and you want to pull him into your frame.

The first thing you have to do is be bold, let him win first, identify with him first, and be friends with him in his framework first.

First find a way to get your relationship to the point where the brothers are good, how to achieve it?

At first it's opposite, and slowly you're going to steer things in the direction of not fighting and not knowing each other, and finding out that he was a good person.

You have to master the rhythm, slowly eliminate his hostility to you, find out all the hostility and knots, and untie them one by one.

If you want things to go as you want, you have to take the initiative and take control of the situation in your own hands.

Be the master, don't be the idiot princess who cries and complains and is rescued by others.

Because when the relationship between husband and wife goes wrong, men have no interest in becoming heroes to save you idiot princess.

Oh, I'm afraid that at this moment, in his eyes, you are no longer a princess worth cherishing, but a pure idiot.

When there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, the wife who is full of benevolence and morality is an annoying sour Confucian in the eyes of her husband.

A wife who is full of grievances and resentments that is not cherished is a super idiot in the eyes of her husband.

Who can hate you and dislike you while pampering you and cherishing you?

Unless he's acting!

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