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In the eyes of parents, the children who raise their mouths and bodies are never as filial as the children who cultivate their minds
In the recently popular TV series "In the World", Feng Huacheng said that "filial piety" is divided into two types: nourishing the mouth and nourishing the mind. Serving around your parents, taking care of your parents' food, clothing, shelter and transportation is to nourish your mouth; to go far away and fly high to achieve achievements, so that parents are proud of this is to nourish the mind.
Raising the mouth and body is like Zhou Bingkun doing filial piety with actions in front of him.
In the TV series, Zhou Bingkun, who can't go to school, doesn't work well, and marries a little widow and drags a small oil bottle. Although, Zhou Bingkun and Juanzi painstakingly supported the family, took care of their mother who was paralyzed in bed for two years, raised her sister to abandon xiao Yueyue at home, and guarded the home for her family who was working outside...
But in Zhou's father's heart, Bingkun is still the son who has not appeared. In The heart of Zhou's father, Zhou Bingkun's filial piety of "raising the mouth and body" is not rare.
In a TV series, why not in real life? In the hearts of many parents, the children who raise the mouth and the body are never as good as the children who raise the mind. The child who raises the mind brings the glory of the whole family to the parents; the daughter who raises the mouth is always the one who stays around and does not appear.
Cultivating the mind is like Bingyi and Zhou Rong.
In the TV series, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong were all admitted to Peking University, and the Guangzi area has been admitted to two college students over the years, both from the Zhou family; what is more worth showing off is that one is married to the governor of the province, and one is married to a famous poet. Green smoke rose from the tomb of the Zhou family ancestors, Guangzong Yaozu, Guangyao Lintel!
In Zhou's father's heart, cultivating his mind is the "filial piety" he really wants!
This is the portrayal of many real parents, in the eyes of parents, the children who raise the mouth and body will never be as filial as the children who raise the mind! Even if they are old and have nothing to rely on, they still want their children to be beautiful and decent outside!
However, for the Zhou family, it is more important to nourish the mouth and body than to cultivate the mind.
Even if the mess of the Zhou family is thrown to Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, then after half a year, Zheng Juan has a baby, who will replace Zheng Juan, who will take care of this family?
Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong must not be able to leave, Dongmei is also in school, lack of skills, Zhou Zhigang has not retired, but also to busy with his own work?
We can't deny that nourishing the mind is also important, but nourishing the mouth and body is the foundation. If even the foundation is not guaranteed, the cultivation of the mind is nothing more than a castle in the air.
#Life insights to share with you # Parents all hope that their children will develop in big cities, and after graduation, they are forced to buy a house and settle down, and it is difficult to stay in the north, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen.
After returning home, parents and friends talked about their children with a light on their faces. On the contrary, the children who return home after graduation have ordinary jobs, but they are accompanied by their parents.
Different choices, different lives. Whether it is to nourish the mouth and body, or to cultivate the mind, it is a kind of filial piety. There is no distinction between high and low.
How is your child now? I hope that you will give more love to the children around you, don't complain that they are not out of the way, do not talk about their children can not lift their heads, give their children a little more confidence and hope, more encouragement, more support, believe that your children are the best, the best.
A momentary gain or loss does not represent a lifetime of success or failure. May everything be fine in our lives. #人世间 #
