The core of psychological counseling is "mutual respect and mutual love"
@ Beijing Happiness Charity Foundation
Love is mutual respect and mutual love between two people, and human feelings are mutual respect and mutual love in the world. Psychological counseling is the art of expression and communication of mutual respect and love, and is the core of psychological counseling, which has a variety of manifestations, such as:
1, slow: the process of psychological counseling is slow, there is no "click" medicine to get rid of the disease. Surface faster not only means slower, but can also create new injuries and problems.
2, there is listening: if someone listens to you, does not judge you, does not worry about you, and does not want to change you, how beautiful! —Carl Rogers.
3, have empathy: turn yourself into the other party to feel the world, and express this feeling. Empathy with acceptance is called divine penetration, and empathy with the subconscious is called cultivation.
4, know the cause: clear the cause of the problem, not the answer. For example, the body and mind are one, and the client's physical problems may be a signal of spiritual problems.
5, people-oriented: the client finds their own rhythm, not the consultant dominates. People want to be better and live a better life.
6, to become the foundation: the charm of psychological counseling is that each client is different. During the consultation process, it is necessary to constantly verify his ideas with the client.
7, clear risk: the way to make people feel more secure is not to have no risks in life, but to know which risks are worth taking. This requires a click.
Many people find a way out in desperate times, the fundamental role is still their own, you can use psychological counseling, but not the only way, some people have found others, such as faith, horoscopes, travel, playing mahjong, eating and drinking. Psychology serves only those who believe in psychology.
As a consultant, I believe that when we continue to work hard to bring into play the art of mutual respect and mutual love expression and communication, the whole world will slowly come by.
#Counselor says ##积极心理学 #
