Why is it that the more people from the lower families, the later they mature, the later they understand the true human nature. At this time, you may say, it is not that the children of the poor have long been in charge,

Why is it that the more people from the lower families, the later they mature, the later they understand the true human nature.

At this time, you may say, it is not that the children of the poor have taken charge of the family early, how can they mature late?

The essence of early home ownership is to master some basic livelihood skills in a poor environment, which has nothing to do with living and has nothing to do with turning over. I tell you this, you understand, they will grow up to spend their energy on hard work, they know that they are immersed in hard work, ignoring the understanding and control of other people's hearts, not to mention controlling human nature, this is a difficult obstacle to break through. They hate interpersonal relationships, for relationships, gifts, patting horses, the heart is full of contempt, and even some of them are high, either do not understand human nature, are not good at expressing and lose opportunities, or they can't move their hearts and lungs, and are often used by people.

Therefore, if you want to rise, the first level is to understand human nature, so that things will be like a fish, there are many people who have a skill and depression, and many people's choice is to complain that they are not talented, complain about the world, and even work hard all their lives without a breakthrough.

The second hurdle is the exchange of benefits. Because of being at the bottom, the lack of their own resources, or they are too serious about money, they are choppy everywhere, even they are very stingy with people who are kind, let alone use money to exchange for more value, let others take the initiative to help you, or they are drunk and drunk, and the brothers are righteous and use the money on the ineffective social network, lending it to those so-called friends, relatives and brothers, and when it is really time to use money, they can only fall into the debt quagmire by themselves, and finally cannot accumulate any resources. Lack of basic understanding of money, inability to control wealth can not pass the value exchange barrier, doomed to achieve nothing.

The third level, the integration of resources has been instilled since childhood to work hard to get rich, only hard-earned money is the cleanest, all money must be their duty, relying on hard work is the right way. There is contempt for those who engage in relationship tactics. In fact, the truth of this society and the underlying logic is completely different, you have to understand, even if you work hard for hundreds of years can not turn over, the process of really making a lot of money is actually very cruel, shopping malls such as battlefields, is to use human desires in the framework of the law ruthlessly squeeze the resources of others, must look at the weakness of human nature This book "Weakness of human nature" This book is regarded as the Bible of social skills, popular around the world, sold more than 90 million copies, has been translated into 58 languages, affecting generation after generation of the public, It has maintained the top spot in the global bestseller list for many years, "a miracle in the history of human publishing".

Please pick up the book "The Weakness of Human Nature", read it carefully from beginning to end, take more notes in the book, and compare the cases in the book with the situations you encountered in real life, you will have a deeper understanding.

If you only rely on your own hard work and your own luck to accumulate wealth, the wealth accumulated will be returned by virtue of your own strength, and the real change of fate is to continuously accumulate and integrate resources. When a person goes to society, he must first accumulate experience in a down-to-earth manner, and he must take time to read more.

But you must know that a person's value improvement is limited after all, while the integration of resources is unlimited. Only by finding a way to integrate resources can we achieve a change in income model and then transform the class. In fact, the truth of society is that the people at the bottom only try to make money and exclude each other, while the rich people huddle together to keep warm, integrate resources together, and squeeze out value. Do you get it?