"Mind-Body Practice"#Emotion# #Practice#
I remember a female friend once said when chatting with me:
"I am very afraid of being alone, and I feel lonely",
Then ask me:
"Are you lonely when you're alone?"
My answer is:
"It used to be, but now it's rarely lonely.
I still enjoy my time alone.
If no one appreciates me, I'll be alone.
There is a poem that I really like:
I love Youlan and don't put the color of the spring sun.
The west wind is cold and dewy under the deep forest, and no one is also incense.
If no one loves, I will be narcissistic, I love myself.
But I think
Those who love to go out love to return, and those who are blessed to come are blessed.
Love, without expecting that there must be a reward,
There is no fear that no one loves,
Without anticipation, there is no harm.".
She replied:
"I find it particularly comfortable to talk to you.
I'd love to talk to you, I can really heal me."
I reply:
"Dear Drop,
The one who can heal yourself is always yourself,
I just opened an existing door for you.
Believe that you yourself will get better and better,
Your beliefs determine your future direction, come on."
Looking back on all these years of running to various learning dojos,
What you learn, what you experience, the path you've traveled,
They have all become the most precious assets in my life,
Although not used as a tool to make money,
But it has invisibly helped some people,
I was happy and content.
Think deeply, why are people lonely?
Because you haven't learned to be with yourself.
When you learn to be alone and enjoy being alone,
There will be no loneliness,
It is precisely when you are alone that you can look at yourself more.
In this life, the most difficult thing is to recognize yourself.
All external changes are driven by internal changes.
Cut off all the ways of seeking from the outside, and ask inward,
You will live transparently and freely.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang once said:
"The most important difficulty in a woman's life is love",
Some women may be stuck all their lives.
And I think
The beauty of an intimate relationship,
Not in the twilight of the morning, and the flowers before the moon,
Rather, they are independent and support each other.
With you by your side, we are beautiful together,
Without you around, I am alone.
A woman's independence is first and foremost emotional independence,
Then you can talk about other independence.
I wish every woman could be transparent.
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