The wealth that a person has should belong to that person, even if a marriage relationship is established and a family is established, then the wealth that originally belonged to that person will not be transferred. Moreover, Wang Xiaoyi in today's article, she has not yet become a family with Chen Yu's mother, but Chen Yu's mother already wants to dominate her wealth, in her opinion, sooner or later she will marry into her own family, so her money should be used when her own family needs it.
Many people have said a sentence:
"What is yours is yours after all, and what is not yours is not yours after all."
Indeed, Wang Xiaoyi's savings were her hard-earned savings, and it was also the cost of her buying a house in a big city. Chen Yu's mother's behavior is tantamount to a deviant approach, and may even cause problems for her son's emotions, which will push her son's girlfriend farther and farther away. If Chen Yu and Wang Xiaoyi are not people with clear minds, they may be in crisis in their feelings because of some disturbances by the elders.
01. I worked hard to save my savings and wanted to buy a suite for myself, but my future mother-in-law beat me with the idea of money;
When Wang Xiaoyi was in college, he took several part-time jobs, because Wang Xiaoyi's father was sick and needed medical expenses, and her mother spent a lot of money just to treat her father, so Wang Xiaoyi's tuition and living expenses were earned by herself.
When it was almost time to graduate, due to Wang Xiaoyi's excellent grades, he was recommended to a very good company for internship. And her father's illness was cured, and Wang Xiaoyi gradually had her own savings, and she planned to buy herself a house in the city where she worked.
When Wang Xiaoyi was in college, he talked about a boyfriend named Chen Yu. Chen Yu admires this self-reliant and self-reliant girl very much, and is willing to work hard with her. With the passage of time, Wang Xiaoyi is also about to save enough money to buy a house for the down payment. During the period when Wang Xiaoyi and Chen Yu were in love, both sides also met their parents, and the parents of both sides did not object to their interaction. Especially the mother of the idiom, when she learned that Wang Xiaoyi planned to save money to buy a house for herself and was going to succeed, she was very satisfied with this future daughter-in-law, after all, who doesn't like people with earning ability?
Just as Wang Xiaoyi and Chen Yu continued to struggle, Chen Yu's sister was about to send good news and was about to get married. Wang Xiaoyi and Chen Yu planned to prepare a wedding gift for their sister, but Chen Yu's mother called Chen Yu and said, "Son, your sister still has to buy some dowry items, and she is still missing 80,000 yuan. Let her come out with 80,000 pieces first. Chen Yu frowned, and refused without even thinking about it.
Wang Xiaoyi looked at the idiom with a bad face and asked what happened, Chen Yu did not intend to tell her the conversation with his mother.
02. The future mother-in-law directly asked me for money, shocked by the future mother-in-law's unkind attitude, I chose to refuse;
A few days after the end of chen yu's call with his mother, Chen Yu's mother came to the city where her son was located, and Chen Yu just happened to be on a business trip for two days, so it was Wang Xiaoyi who received Chen Yu's mother.
After the two sat down to eat a good meal, Chen Yu's mother suddenly said: "Daughter-in-law, I discussed something with you, didn't you save a sum of money to buy a house?" Or do you first take 80,000 out to give your sister-in-law as a dowry? You have been saving this for so long, and you are not in a hurry to buy a house at this time. Wang Xiaoyi was a little displeased with Chen Yu's mother's such an impolite attitude and words, but he did not show it, and he pushed back: "I'm afraid not, because the house has been optimistic, and the date of buying the house has been negotiated with others, after a while I will have to pay, take out 80,000 at once, and I can't get money from other places." "Oh, then you can buy it later, you tell the seller to be late, that's your sister-in-law, don't you care?" You can't be so indifferent, if it goes out, it will be bad for your reputation. ”
Chen Yu's mother, who already had a secret threat in her words, seemed to be necessary for Wang Xiaoyi's 80,000, but Wang Xiaoyi was not a soft persimmon, let others pinch it, smiled and said: "Auntie, I and your son are not married, so your daughter's dowry has nothing to do with me, and I have no obligation to help her pay this money." After hearing this sentence, the woman's mother's face was already black, but she didn't say anything, and she left with a cold snort.
03. The future mother-in-law finds a boyfriend to complain, the boyfriend defends me, and the future mother-in-law smokes.
Soon Chen Yu made a phone call to Wang Xiaoyi, Chen Yu already knew that his mother had gone to find his girlfriend without permission, he did not believe his mother's one-sided words, and he also guessed his mother's plan to come here personally.
Chen Yu on the other end of the phone said: "You don't have to care about my mother, she is like that, this money is earned by you, you have decided to buy a house, my sister's affairs, I should help, you are not obliged to give this money, as for my mother, I have already said her." After Listening to her boyfriend's words, Wang Xiaoyi felt sweet in her heart and asked: "You said that your mother will definitely be angry, after all, you are his son." "Don't mention it, I've been scolded by her." Chen Yu smiled helplessly.
In the end, Chen Yu tried to get 80,000 yuan and gave this money to his sister who was about to get married, and it was the 80,000 yuan that Chen Yu had to find a way to return, chen Yu's mother knew about this matter, she was furious, and opposed Chen Yu and Wang Xiaoyi to continue to be together.
Of course, Chen Yu ignored his unreasonable mother, and he returned to the city where he worked, choosing to continue to work hard with Wang Xiaoyi. The mother of the idiom saw that her son did not pay attention to her, so she said: "Without my consent, you two don't want to be together, do you still want to get married?" Don't! But Chen Yu and Wang Xiaoyi's relationship is not aimed at marriage, they are like a pair of comrades-in-arms, enjoying the feeling of accompanying each other to fight side by side.
After several years, the idiom was almost 30 years old, at this time Chen Yu's mother was finally anxious, and her attitude began to soften, because she wanted to hold her grandson. On this day, she took the initiative to call her son and wanted him to go home, Chen Yu said: "Mom, you can want me to go home, but I have to bring Xiaoyi." The mother was silent for a moment, then said, "Good." ”
After Chen Yu's mother was soft and peaceful, Idiom and Wang Xiaoyi married and still made their home in that big city. A year later, Cheng Yu's mother hugged her grandson as she wished, and the joy of laughter blossomed.
A man who is at fault cannot be stubborn to the end, because he finds that no one in the world will help him. Chen Yu's mother is the one who is at fault, but she has a big temper and a good face, so she has not let go of herself to admit her mistakes for so many years. This led to his son being estranged from him for so many years, and even almost destroyed his son's good marriage.
As the saying goes:
"Mistakes can be corrected, and good deeds can be done."
Fortunately, she eventually softened her attitude, and what she did was wrong, even extreme. If he continues to be so obsessed, he may miss his son's life events and make his happiness a few years late. The so-called no one is perfect, gold is not enough, a person can not avoid making mistakes, but as long as she changes, then she will usher in a good new life. Of course, admitting mistakes also requires courage, and this courage, Chen Yu's mother has used for several years to accumulate, and when she makes up her mind, it is also the beginning of her laying down heavy burdens.