【After a blind date, how long should love be discussed?】 Is it better the longer it takes? Why do people talk longer and break up? Some people have proposed that it is most appropriate to talk about one and a half to two years! The longer you talk about love, the more obstacles the two people's feelings are, the difference in personality is too large, the gap in dealing with people is too large, and the gap in family background is too large! Maybe the two met someone they shouldn't have met at the wrong time!
The time is too long, the two people also slowly lost their freshness, and even more contradictions, more and more complaints, even if they can barely maintain feelings, both sides are tired and cope with things.
As for the length of love, there are other factors affecting, such as whether the two are sincere with each other, whether there is an open and open in-depth communication of each other's confusion, if it has always been hidden, with some psychology of cheating feelings, then no matter how long it takes to talk, this relationship will not mature!
Why is it best to say that about two years is the most appropriate?
The survey results show that the time from the beginning of love to marriage is about 90% in 1 to 3 years. The types of love include love at first sight, introduction, free love and green plum bamboo horses, etc., the longer they fall in love, the less they can enter the marriage, which is often said to be "walking and walking and scattering?" ”
Compared to boys, girls prefer to enjoy the process of falling in love, because love is full of romance and warmth, freedom and casualness! And married life, more is the triviality of chai rice oil and salt!
But have been in love, after all, the cost is too high, and the best age for women to have children is under 30 years old, if they have been dragging on not getting married, dragging out the relationship, and then looking for someone to fall in love again, and finally women becoming elderly mothers is not cost-effective!
From a psychological point of view, it is most appropriate to get married after two years of love. Marriage is a thing that requires both passion and stability, and it is more appropriate to start talking about marriage in about a year and a half!
It is said that any period of emotion for more than three years, the passion will be greatly reduced, the attraction of the two sexes will weaken, it is estimated that aesthetic fatigue is generated! So in a little over a year to two years, this time
It is better to plan for marriage, and both parties will enter the palace of marriage with sweetness and passion, and will establish the marriage more firmly!
There is also the opposite phenomenon, flash marriage!
Is there any happiness in flash marriage? The answer is yes, there are no absolutes! The most important thing is that the lovers are not really established an intimate connection!
To be able to have a happy flash marriage must be an excellent fate, they can honestly understand each other in a short period of time, naturally two souls with the same rich experience, which has a deep resonance! Decide to spend your life with each other!
Therefore, the length of love time depends on the degree of tacit understanding between lovers and the degree of matching, only the parties are the most clear!
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