Author: One flower
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Meller Sain once said, "Love is not who sacrifices for whom, who does what for whom, and once love becomes like this, it is no longer love." ”
Truly loving a person is not to cater to his preferences, to transform himself beyond recognition, to lose his original self, but to strive to improve himself at the same time, but also to urge the other party to make some good changes, two-way excellent rush.
Everyone's definition and understanding of love is different, and the type of opposite sex that they like is also very different, for example, some men like beautiful women with outstanding looks, hot bodies and flamboyant personalities, while some men are biased to choose a well-behaved and cute little sister next door.
Leaving aside the problems of men themselves, although the criteria for choosing a mate are very different, most men's choices still have a lot in common in the types of nasty opposite sexes. Especially those men who have had a rich relationship experience are more disgusted with women who have certain characteristics in their bodies.
Women who will make men "disgusted" have these characteristics on their bodies, how many do you account for?
First, excessive tenderness
Perhaps, someone will stand up and say, what happened to an overly gentle woman? How can they arouse men's "disgust" emotions so empathetically?
In fact, women who are overly gentle are indeed annoying, and their "excellent quality" is worthless in the eyes of men. Everything pays attention to a degree, women's moderate gentleness and empathy, of course, will be appreciated by men, but excessive gentleness, it will be counterproductive.
Women who are overly gentle will have a very obvious characteristic, that is, they love to nag non-stop. Men are under more pressure in this society than women, who work outside the home for a day and bow down in front of clients and bosses.
When I got home, I wanted to rest a little, but the woman's mouth was broken and she kept nagging, which would only make the man more bored.
Second, the possessiveness is extremely strong
Women with strong possessiveness can also make men very disgusted.
Generally speaking, in the stage of first love, men will have a sense of pride because of women's possessiveness, and they will feel that this characteristic of women is a manifestation of deep love for themselves.
But over time, once a man's freshness is lost, women also show a strong desire for control and possessiveness, which will make men have a feeling that they cannot breathe freely. Whether it is the love stage or the marriage stage, men want to have their own private space and do not like their other half to monitor their lives anytime and anywhere.
Third, I love to be clingy
Some women, once in love, are like pestering kittens, who need each other's hugs all the time. But in this materialistic society, where men can find so much time to talk about love, their first task is to "move bricks to earn money".
Clingy women, will not care about this, they want nothing more than a man's 24-hour companionship. There are also many women who will not be ashamed to say "I don't want your money, I just want you to accompany me all the time" to move themselves.
But when men really give up their careers to accompany women wholeheartedly, women will stand on the moral high ground and accuse men of not having a career, let alone the ability to give themselves a future. That is, no matter how men choose, they will eventually be picked out where the mistakes are.
Therefore, women who love to cling to people, men do not dare to touch at all, and even have great antipathy towards such women.
Combined with the above, the women who will make men "disgusted" are nothing more than the three types mentioned above, excessively gentle, possessive, and very clingy, how many of them do you account for?
Want to get a lot of men's pursuit, just rely on the advantages of appearance, it is not advisable, the face will always have the day of aging, their own excellent qualities, is the biggest personality charm in you. Knowing the criteria for men's mate selection, it is not to take the initiative to cater to them, but to find out their self-positioning and suffer less from love.
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In addition to the above characteristics, what other problems do women have that will make men "disgusted" emotions? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.