There is a friend whose family conditions are very good, how good is it? That is, children start from kindergarten, wear clothes that are not brand-name, 1 meter tall people absolutely do not buy 1 meter and 5 clothes, and can buy complete sets of absolutely not matching themselves.
The color of the clothes should pay attention to the color system, and the style should pay attention to the style. On the first day of kindergarten, the teacher commented on the baby: the family is very well-off.
In fact, many kindergarten teachers have said that they can summarize the child's family situation according to the child's clothing.
How exactly is it summed up?
The first category: the rich class
The so-called rich class means that both parents and even the children's grandparents and grandparents belong to the elite class. From the birth of a child, a road map for the child's life is formulated.
From getting dressed and eating, to what school to go to, what interests and specialties to learn, etc., there have long been clear goals.
Most of the children of this type of family are brand-name leanings, paying attention to the design of fabrics and color matching. What type of clothes with what shoes, inside and out are exquisite collocations.
The second category: the middle class
This kind of family is generally the child's parents with their own efforts, little by little.
There are houses, cars and stable jobs, but it is still a little difficult to raise children according to the educational model of rich families. But there is also a small part that can be reluctantly achieved.
Children of such families do not pay much attention to the body of famous brands in dressing, but occasionally there are some famous brands. It could be bought as a reward or a promotional discount.
Middle-class parents pay attention to the comfort of dressing their children. Do not ask how advanced the clothes are, as long as the quality of the clothes is good and the children are comfortable to wear. The color and style of clothes are also simple and generous.
The third category: the general family
In general, the economic conditions of the family may be slightly worse, and the children's parents are not stable in their jobs. Usually running away for the family's economy, so there is less discipline for the children.
Or give the child full authority to the elderly at home, but the energy of the elderly is also very limited, so it is not so exquisite when taking care of the child.
After children go to school, they can often see oil stains and rice stains on their clothes. The clothes may also be on the large side, and the personal hygiene situation is not too good.
In fact, what the child wears and how to wear it does not matter. No matter what the child wears, it does not mean whether the parents love the child a little less or a little more. The most important thing is that children can grow up healthy and happy.
Instead of struggling with the child's clothing, it is better to give the child more high-quality companionship.
First: Talk with your child. No matter how busy you are, take 10 or 30 minutes a day to talk to your child seriously.
Listen to your child talk about what they like and what happened at school today. Over time, the distance between you and your child will get closer and closer.
Second: Tell a story to your child. Studies have shown that children who can listen to a story every day develop their language and brains faster and more robustly than children who don't listen to stories. In terms of language expression, it will also surpass children of the same age.
Third: exercise with your child. Exercise can enhance children's physique, and children can also learn to persevere, brave, strong and other traits from sports.
In particular, parents accompany their children to exercise, not only can establish a close parent-child relationship, children can also learn a positive and sunny mentality from their parents.
Every child is a treasure in the hearts of parents, and there is no parent who does not want to give the best things in the world to their children.
But for the child, good is not necessarily material satisfaction, and spiritual giving and inspiration are more meaningful to a child's growth.