Now although the three children are open, but more young parents do not even want the second child, just want to educate a child, put all their energy on this child, but because as long as this child, the result of the child cultivated a bunch of bad diseases!
In the 1980s, the mainland's eugenics policy created the first batch of only children, in order to alleviate social pressure and improve the quality of the population! But in recent years, with the trend of social development too fast, too many young parents only want to raise a child, but now the only child is a delicate problem!
Now young parents, spoiling children can not be, resulting in many only children now more or less have a particularly selfish heart and behavior, because they are only children, parents will not do their housework, but also because they are only children, parents are obedient to each other, let them develop filial piety to their parents, eat lazy, greedy and willful and other problems, so the education of only children is the most serious problem in today's society!
Why is the only child sick? Haven't parents already focused all their energy on this one child? There are three reasons for this
1. Too spoiled and spoiled
Because he is an only child, the only seedling in the family, the love of his parents will be displayed vividly on him, this does not let dry, that does not let dry, let the child develop a bad habit of reaching out to open his mouth! The old people we often see evolve in this way, thinking that it is natural to reach out to their parents, and they will also run in the nest and do not know how to respect their elders!
2. Too selfish
Because he is an only child, everything in the family belongs to him alone, no matter what he eats and plays, everything is his, and no one will rob him, resulting in going to kindergarten or even to society, unable to change his self-centered, selfish psychology
3. Strong dependence
No matter what the only child does, the parents are dependent on the child, resulting in the child will make unthinking requests to the parents, these requirements are like balloons, constantly expanding, if one day, the parents can not meet the children's requirements, the children will feel extreme fear, this fear will become resentment against the parents
Therefore, parents should pay attention to the education of their only children! Parents should have a correct attitude towards the only child to educate and cultivate, love but not pet, raise and not proud. Loving children is not only reflected in the life of children, but also in the education and cultivation of children, so that children can grow up healthily in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor, so as to better promote the healthy and harmonious development of the only child's body and mind.