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Since ancient times, there is no pair of parents who do not hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, and for most parents, they expect their children to stand out not only for the glory of their ancestors, but also for the second half of their children's lives to have a stable guarantee.
Relatively speaking, smart people are more likely to get ahead, after all, their IQ is high, their thinking ability is strong, and they can think of a way to solve this problem when they encounter any problem. Because of this, parents want their next generation to have a high IQ.
According to professional data, people with an IQ test score of more than 130 points can be classified as a high IQ group, and almost all students who can enter 985 colleges and universities in China have an IQ of more than 120 points, which is enough to be called excellent.
In the process of raising their children, how should parents turn their children into high-IQ people?
First, let's clarify the definition of IQ. Iq is the full name of intelligence quotient, English writing IQ, it is a basic indicator of a person's intelligence level, the higher the IQ, the stronger the thinking ability, the lower the IQ, the weaker the thinking ability.
The industry generally believes that the IQ level is affected by the parents, because the IQ is the quotient value, intelligence is the fixed value, so once the IQ is determined, the result will not change again, and the intelligence may be slowly improved in the process of cultivation.
The second is to understand the factors that influence IQ.
If you don't know what your IQ score is, it is better to start from life and judge whether you are a smart person or a stupid person, I believe that everyone can always be aware of this.
Scientific research shows that human IQ is divided into fluid IQ and crystal IQ, at the same time, IQ will also be affected by the social environment and emotional psychology of the individual.
For example, when a person's psychological condition is extremely bad, and the whole person is trapped in a state of misery and anger, he will be unable to make a correct judgment in the choice due to emotional fluctuations.
However, if a person's mood is happy and happy, his brain will secrete a large amount of dopamine, which will promote his ability to think and judge, so it seems that the more happy and optimistic people are, the easier it is to be smart and clever.
Most of the children's IQ is inherited from their parents, but the improvement of intelligence is not necessarily impossible, as long as the later stage is properly cultivated, the child's intelligence level will be improved.
1, the nutritional balance of catering is established, providing children with good dietary conditions to promote the development of brain cells.
2, in daily life often guide children to think, and strive to make them develop the habit of independent thinking.
3. Cultivate children's endurance perseverance and mind. Try to get him to break the habit of doing everything for three minutes or giving up halfway.
4. Cultivate children's creative thinking ability, let them set goals for themselves, not only have the possibility of completion, but also set a certain difficulty for themselves, which is commonly known as targeted.
Many parents have fallen into the extreme part of education, thinking that this is the release of nature, and some are extremely strict, trying to make the child grow more tenacious in a repressive way.
Whether it's overindulgence or over-harshness, this is an inappropriate way to cultivate.
Look at whether your children have these characteristics, and if they are fully matched, it means that they are very likely to become the dragon and phoenix in the future. The top 10 signs that high-IQ children have, and winning more than 5 is really smart.
1. Do not blindly listen to their parents, know how to fight, and question authority.
2. Care about the feelings of others, not just immerse yourself in your own world.
3. Like to try the unknown, not satisfied with the mediocre status quo.
4. Like to challenge yourself and be interested in difficult things.
5. Don't like to repeat the same life day after day, prefer things with characteristics.
6. Good memory can often give examples and repeat the details more accurately.
7. Like to read, but not completely based on books, learn knowledge in books and verify in reality. In the true sense, the unity of knowledge and action has been achieved.
8. Often meditate and be serious, and even ignore external things.
9. Have something you love and be willing to give a lot of time and effort to your hobbies.
10. Lively thoughts are often beneficial to the thoughts of ordinary people, who can keenly perceive the world around them and express everything in their own way.
As the parents of such children, everyone does not have to worry about the future development of children, but excessive indulgence and excessive severity are not advisable, and it is appropriate to let him release his nature while also restraining.
Parents can have a broader space for their children to grow through positive interaction. For example, communicate more and communicate more, and give children many words of praise.
Tolerate your child's perverse behavior and give him more freedom. Lead children to jointly shape the correct outlook on life, values and worldview.
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Author | Tommy
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参考资料：Vogel, D. L., & Wester, S. R. (2003). To seek help or not to seek help: The risks of self-disclosure. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 50(3), 351.