After a video about the daughter-in-law making Chinese New Year's Eve meals for her mother-in-law's family for thirty years was sent, the women after the 70s and 80s and 90s fried the pot in the comment area.
I summed it up and found a pattern that is, after the 60s and 70s, after the 80s, and after the 90s, generations of women have very different opinions on the question of whether they should cook Chinese New Year's Eve meals for their mother-in-law's family alone.
The post-60s and post-70s are like our generation, all belong to the humiliation of the family harmony, in order to honor the in-laws, they all work hard for several years, more than ten years, or even decades to do a big family's Chinese New Year's Eve meal.
Later, when my body was not working, I found that I couldn't bear it, and I realized that I had paid too much and couldn't understand and care. On the contrary, the contribution is not flattering. Even the post-60s and post-70s husbands have machismo and do not know how to feel sorry for their wives.
Women of this age have a bitter stomach and have the same experience as me, so they especially understand my feelings, understand and care about me, and advise me to take care of my body, you don't love yourself and no one loves you.
Post-80s women also have this experience, but they are younger, more self-aware than we are, and will not endure humiliation and burden like we do.
They know how to divide labor and cooperate, to do Chinese New Year's Eve meals together, do not eat. No one can cook or make a few dishes to eat together, or they can go to a restaurant to eat.
Their husbands are very distressed about them, worried that they are tired, and generally follow their wishes.
The post-90s generation is even more personality-oriented, and they even suspect that I live in the 40s and ask me why I don't resist? Why is it so silly? If they don't make Chinese New Year's Eve meals, they either go out to eat or don't eat, and whoever loves to do it will do it, and don't pull it down.
Most of the comments are heartwarming, care about me, help me with ideas, and even meet me next year to see how I can avoid Chinese New Year's Eve meal.
Some also gave me various tricks, they made me very moved, they really care about my body, pay attention to my feelings, help me analyze how to solve the problem.
The interaction with everyone has brought me and my friends' hearts closer, gained a deeper understanding of each other, and also made me realize that there is another world # Urumqi toutiao # # micro headlines day signing # #乌鲁木齐 #
