Text/Cloud School Student
For children, parents can hold up their sky and make them feel warm. In the process of growing up, children can always get endless strength from their parents. Whether parents are gentle with their children or strictly educated, they will be deeply imprinted in their children's minds. The following 5 moments are the moments when children can best remember their parents, and parents should grasp such moments.
1. When the child is insecure
In the process of children's growth, there will always be times when there is a lack of security. For example, when a person is alone in a dark room, goes to a completely unfamiliar environment, is alone with strangers, etc., the child will feel very insecure. At this time, if parents can appear around the child in time and let the child feel that he has the dependence of his parents, the child's sense of fear will be reduced a lot. Therefore, as a parent, we should try to accompany the child when the child is insecure and bring warmth to the child.
2. Parents put their attention on their children
Children often need the company of their parents, if the parents with the child, not always busy with work or do other things, but put all their attention on the child, for example, seriously tell the child a story, devote themselves to playing games with the child, such a moment will be remembered by the child. If parents are always in a loose state when they are with their children, always double-minded, they will make the children feel that their parents are perfunctory and coping with him, and such companionship is of low quality. Therefore, parents should try to invest in it as much as possible when they are with their children, rather than being in Cao Ying's heart in Han.
3. Details of when parents get along
In the child's heart, the father and the mother are equally important, and the child longs for a harmonious relationship between the parents and can love each other. Children and parents live together, and how parents get along with each other will make a deep impression on children. Whether the parents are arguing fiercely together or very sweet, these pictures will take root in the child's heart and will subtly affect the child. Therefore, husband and wife should coexist harmoniously, create a warm and sweet atmosphere, and reduce some quarrels and dislikes, so that children can remember more beautiful pictures of parents together, and children will grow up in warmth.
4. Parents' evaluation of their children
Everyone wants praise and affirmation, and so do children. Sometimes a parent's unconscious criticism or praise will be deeply rooted in the child's heart and will affect the child's life. Parents' evaluations, many times like a seed, take root in the child's heart, and then affect the child's life. Whether it is praise or criticism, it will make the child remember it. So, remember to think twice before evaluating your child. Words of praise can be said more, but words of criticism cannot be blurted out. Sometimes a word from a parent will determine the child's mood.
5. Good family tradition
Children grow up in a certain family atmosphere and find a sense of belonging through the family. Although the future is unpredictable and full of uncertainties, children can feel the meaning of life from some inherent family traditions and will feel more fulfilled. Good family traditions will make the family full of rituals, for example, fixing the family dinner every weekend, the same dish that must be eaten on special days, etc., are all good family traditions and will remain deeply in the memory of children. Even years later, children can still feel the beauty of childhood from such family traditions, and children will reminisce about a lifetime.
Children are a gift from Heaven to their parents, and to become qualified parents, they need to continue to learn and explore. As a parent, we must leave as many good memories as possible for our children, and leave more memorable moments for our children, so that parents are competent.