Many couples may think of solving the problem of multiple births in a short period of time when making a pregnancy plan, so that they can bring up several children together, and parents will be more relaxed in the later stage, but in fact, this idea is very idealized, because in real life, there are various obstacles, if these factors are not taken into account, it may bring a lot of trouble to the later stage.
Case: Two consecutive caesarean sections in two years, the uterus almost ruptured when preparing for the second child
Ms. Ding and her husband began to prepare for pregnancy after marriage, pregnancy preparation is still relatively successful, the second year of marriage gave birth to a cute little boy, Ms. Ding's first birth is the use of caesarean section. About three months after giving birth, Ms. Ding felt that her situation had almost recovered, so she mentioned to her husband the idea of preparing for a second child, and said that it would be more convenient to take the baby together, and it might be tired now, but it would be easier later.
The husband thought that Ms. Ding's idea was very good, so he agreed. Follow-up Ms. Ding is pregnant about two months and then pregnant, when the obstetric examination doctors are very surprised, because usually, if the first child is a caesarean section, if you want to prepare for the second child, the uterus fully recovered at least two or three years, and Ms. Ding plus confinement, a total of only five months, it is inevitable to be too anxious.
But Ms. Ding felt that it was no big deal, she also had two friends around her, which was the case, and she didn't necessarily have any accidents, so she insisted on giving birth to the baby.
During pregnancy, Ms. Ding also paid great attention to the issue of raising a fetus, but despite this, when she was 7 months pregnant, the doctor assessed that the previous scars on her uterus had not yet recovered completely, and if the pregnancy continued, there might be a rupture of the uterus. Hearing this, Ms. Ding also felt very panicked, afraid of accidents, and this situation is likely to directly threaten the safety of pregnant women and fetuses.
Follow-up, the doctor will give advice, up to half a month, if more than the period, then the possibility of uterine rupture is very large, the current recommendation that Ms. Ding first hospitalized for recuperation, abnormal situations can be treated in time. Wait until half a month later to have a caesarean section, and Ms. Ding also agreed to this plan.
When it was almost half a month, the doctor gave Ms. Ding a caesarean section, and then she was more than seven months pregnant, and the baby was considered to be premature, so it could only be kept in an incubator. In the process of caesarean section, Ms. Ding was also nine deaths, and even she herself sighed, and she did not dare to take risks again.
01 After giving birth to the first child, if there are these three situations, the second child plan should be slowed down, and there will be more trouble in the later stage
The first case is what we said in the above case, if the first child is a caesarean section, then if you want to prepare for a second child, you have to wait at least eighteen months, because the uterus is almost restored, if you want to ensure that the uterus recovers well, it is best to wait for another year. And it is not that everyone is so, because of the difference in personal constitution, coupled with the difference in various living habits after each pregnancy, resulting in different recovery processes, so it is recommended that the time of caesarean section of the two births should be separated for a long time, otherwise it is easy to have a greater danger when preparing for the second child, such as uterine rupture, premature birth of the fetus, etc., and it is very dangerous for the pregnant woman herself.
Secondly, if after giving birth to the first child, the mothers have left more serious sequelae, such as uterine prolapse, uterine ectopic, uterine lining is too thin, etc., in fact, these are not suitable for having a second child, and it is easy to have the problem of miscarriage. In addition, there are also some mothers who have more serious ovarian problems, cervical problems, etc., which are also not suitable for preparing for a second child in a short period of time, we must deal with these problems first, and then prepare for the second child, otherwise even if it is successful, it is easy to have a greater danger during the delivery process, or during pregnancy.
The third situation is that after giving birth to the first child, if the couple's feelings become worse, and the two have more contradictions about raising a child, there is no time and energy to take the child, then in this case, it is actually not suitable to prepare for a second child in a short period of time. Because after the birth of the first child, the transformation of the role of the husband and wife, there will certainly be a lot of problems in this process that need to be run-in, some couples may take a shorter time to run in, and some will be longer, most of them are in the time of three to five years, so it is not too late to wait until this stage to start preparing for the second child.
If you are too anxious to start preparing for a second child, and do not make any preparations, then whether it is the mother herself, or for the family, there will be more trouble in the later stage, which may be physical or family conflicts. It is precisely because of this that the husband and wife need to make a decision after full consideration.