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A unique way of maternal love: in order to enable her daughter to have children, the mother gave up her womb

Wen | Cheats Jun

It is said that the love of parents in the whole world is the greatest, especially the love of mothers. How great can maternal love be?

When I was browsing the Internet, I stumbled upon a message that shook people's hearts.

At the age of 20, her daughter Yang Hua (pseudonym) found herself suffering from a congenital disease without a uterus, which made it unacceptable to her as a medical student, after all, without a uterus means inability to have children. What's more, she still has a good object around her, can the other party accept her?

After knowing her daughter's physical condition, it is Yang Mu who is even more indifferent. As a native of the countryside, her mind is still bound by the old concept that a woman's inability to have children will be a lifelong regret, and that this defect of her daughter is accidentally caused by her own pregnancy. As a mother, she always wanted to make up something for her daughter.

A unique way of maternal love: in order to enable her daughter to have children, the mother gave up her womb

In order to fulfill her daughter's dream of childbirth, the mother sacrificed her womb

Two years later, in 2015, the mother and daughter who sought medical treatment came to Xijing Hospital and were told by doctors that they could try uterine transplantation, but this was the first case of uterine transplantation in the hospital, and the current technical conditions are not very mature. Even globally, there are only 11 such surgeries, only 8 survive, and 1 successful childbirth.

In order to fulfill her daughter's dream of childbirth, Yang Mu decided to give it a try. After the difficult preparations in the early stage, the hospital can finally perform a uterine transplant for Yang Hua. But who would be willing to provide Yang Hua with a womb?

The 43-year-old Yang Mu was obligated to stand up.

After 14 hours, the country's first uterine transplant was finally successful.

Three years later, Yang Hua began to undergo artificial insemination techniques. After four failures, Yang Hua finally conceived successfully, and in 2019, when he was 26 years old, he gave birth to a healthy baby boy.

It is reported that the small two mouths still have the intention of having a second child, and at that time, the womb given by the mother will continue to play a role.

A unique way of maternal love: in order to enable her daughter to have children, the mother gave up her womb

The biggest difficulty with uterine transplantation is ethical issues

In fact, the biggest problem encountered by Xijing Hospital in doing this first uterine transplant in China is the ethical barrier. Without the approval of the Medical Ethics Committee, this technology cannot be used clinically.

The point of contention is that if the uterus is transplanted, who does the child in the uterus belong to? Does it belong to the transplanted party, or is it the transplanted party?

After the professor explained, the child originated from the fertilized egg of the transplanted parent and was not necessarily related to the provider of the uterus, so it must belong to the transplanted party. That is to say, the eggs and sperm that form the fertilized eggs come from Yang Hua and Yang Hua's husbands respectively, so the children must also be Yang Hua's, and yang mother's womb only provides a place for the fertilized egg to develop and grow. Moreover, this uterus was also transplanted back into Yang Hua's belly.

It can be said that the child was born from the fetus of "mother-in-law" Yang Hua.

There is also a mother and daughter in the world who have experienced the problem of "same house and different generations". They are Natsumi Iijima from Tokyo and her 53-year-old mother, Yoko Abe. Natsumi Iijima was unable to conceive because her uterus was removed due to illness at the age of 1, and she later gave birth to a child with the help of her mother's womb.

A unique way of maternal love: in order to enable her daughter to have children, the mother gave up her womb

But after the birth of the child, they wondered, who is the child's mother, is it Yoko or Natsumi?

However, it is clear that Yang Hua's mother and daughter do not have such confusion.

What struck me in this case was the mother's determination to give her daughter her all the time. I also lament the hard work and effort a woman puts in to procreate. In this world, whether it is a woman who has paid a lot of time, energy and money for childbearing, or a woman who can or does not want to have children, is worthy of respect.

You know, the improvement of women's status means that no matter what women do, they have their own choices. Whether or not you can have children, whether you have children or not, will not affect the integrity of a woman, nor is it a statement used by others to accuse.

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