A report was released in a certain place in Jiangsu, saying that nearly 70% of women who have gone to college are only willing to have one child. The underlying meaning of this article is that women are reluctant to have children because they are highly educated, so they are smart, not stupid "machines" who only know how to give birth. It is ridiculous to say that having a child should be a matter that needs to be treated rationally, and this matter concerns all aspects of society, men and women, the family, etc., while the relevant parties simply and rudely explain the reasons why women do not have children
It's ridiculous to add to the increase in educational attainment!
Is it difficult to solve the problem of returning to ancient times, pursuing "women without talent is morality", completely cutting off women's education and promotion, and leaving them trapped in fertility for a lifetime? So what about progress and development in society?
What are the factors that make women reluctant to have children? I think there are several reasons for this:
First, marriage and childbearing are not a compulsory topic in life.
The continuous development of society and the improvement of women's educational attainment have led to women becoming more and more independent, and independence in thinking, personality, and economy has made marriage and childbearing a multi-choice topic in their lives, rather than a mandatory topic.
In fact, excellent women also have unique advantages and achievements in work, but marriage and childbearing will become an obstacle to their careers, and they will not be able to better realize their own value.
In addition, the risks and uncertainties of marriage are too great, so that many women are reluctant to take risks, rather than pay too much cost in marriage, many people would rather devote themselves to self-improvement and work.
Second, fertility and education are costly.
Presumably, no one does not understand how expensive it is to have and raise a child, even unmarried people understand this truth. Whether it is for the realization of self-worth or to maintain the basic needs of the family, most women are active in the workplace, but no matter how high the salary is, it is still drinking and quenching thirst, so many people do not want to have children, but dare not have children.
Compared with the cost of childbirth, the cost of education for children is even more frightening, and then it involves children getting married and having children, which is simply a bottomless pit.
Such a simple truth, the relevant personnel can not understand?
Third, the impact of the social environment.
When working women can only choose between work and family, who will not be entangled? Female childbirth is an unspeakable pain in the workplace, and girls who have the courage to have a child have paid unimaginable hardships.
House prices, prices are too high, the 996 working environment, women in the workplace are treated unfairly, men in the family is missing, the cost of childbirth is completely borne by the enterprise and the family, so much "malice" is to remind women - do not have children!
However, now when many people mention childbirth, they blame all the problems on women, as if the existence of women should be in order to meet the needs of society, only let birth to one child, then resolutely do not have a second child, so that the birth of three children must actively respond to the policy.
If these problems encountered by women in childbearing cannot be effectively solved, the contradiction of childbearing can never be truly resolved, and it will even be aggravated.