The first child is the difference between son and daughter:
1. Mode of delivery. The mode of delivery is nothing more than a vaginal birth and a caesarean section, and if the birth is difficult at the time of delivery, caesarean section is basically chosen.
When choosing the mode of delivery of the first child, the mother-in-law will choose caesarean section or vaginal delivery according to whether it is a man or a woman, if it is a boy, both, but if it is a girl, it will be a smooth delivery, so as not to delay the time of the second child.
2. Family status. If the first child is born to a boy, it is like giving birth to a dragon, and the family status can be improved by leaps and bounds.
The daily family atmosphere is needless to say that it is joyful, the mother-in-law will definitely show off everyone, her daughter-in-law is a great hero, and she has given birth to a big fat boy for her family, which is also a successor.
But if you give birth to a daughter, your mother may be a little bitter when you confine.
Not to mention that the mother-in-law looks forward and backward to help take care of the confinement, it is estimated that even the child is not willing to look at it twice, and there is a discordant atmosphere in the family all day.
3. Give birth to a second child. If the first child is a girl, she is eager to get pregnant with the second child immediately after being born, and she keeps trying desperately in her ear every day, hoping to conceive a boy. At the same time, he also said that the girl who was pregnant with the key was going to be beaten off.
The implication is that the second child must be a boy, and there is no room for negotiation. These situations are not common to every family, but they are real.
If you meet a patriarchal family, don't be led by the nose, have your own opinions, and don't end up becoming a fertility machine, that life is the saddest.