It is a very great thing to conceive a small life, and it is often said that "the fate of parents and children is predestined". However, in this world, there are still many things that are active or forced to give up their small lives.
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Especially for some women who are pregnant unmarried or have an unwanted pregnancy, miscarriage may be the best way they can think of to protect themselves. However, experts do not recommend giving up the first child casually, why is this?
"The first baby is here to repay the favor?"
Good friend Coco accidentally conceived a baby, it happened that she was about to be promoted to project manager, for various reasons, she discussed with her husband and decided to temporarily abandon the child.
But the mother-in-law said disapprovingly: "The first baby is here to repay the favor of the parents, but it can't be 'flowed'." ”
Coco believes that this is just an excuse for the mother-in-law to keep her grandchildren (daughters) and does not take this to heart. Later, I made an appointment to go to the hospital, and the obstetrician also said, "In special circumstances, try to keep the first child, it is good for you and the child." ”
This made Coco wonder a little, is the first birth really that important?
Why does the obstetrician recommend trying to save the first birth?
1. So as not to affect the recurrence of pregnancy
Abortion is relatively large to women's physical harm, even if they are now promoting "three minutes of painless abortion", it sounds like a small operation, but the hidden dangers behind it are still not to be underestimated.
In the short term, after a woman undergoes a miscarriage operation, the endocrine level of the body cannot be restored temporarily, and there are often abnormal menstrual flow and menstrual disorders.
In the long run, no matter what kind of abortion, it will bring harm to its endometrial wall, common is that the endometrial wall is thinned, if the first fetus chooses to beat off, when pregnant again, the child is often difficult to keep, may be habitual abortion.
2, so as not to leave a psychological shadow on women
Abortion surgery can also place a heavy burden on women's psychology. Especially the first child, for the mother, the meaning is completely different, she first experienced what it is like to conceive life, the first time to become a mother is unforgettable.
Imagine if they are forced to give up their babies at this time, their mood is mostly full of anxiety, loss, guilt, and discomfort... A variety of negative emotions are mixed, and the blow to them is probably difficult for ordinary people to understand.
I have seen a group of interviews before, in which many women said that when the first child is beaten, they often have nightmares, the mood is very uncomfortable, and even depression problems appear.
Therefore, experts suggest: exclude special circumstances, if conditions permit, try to keep the first birth, so as not to leave a psychological shadow on women, and then may live in sin.
3, the first child's IQ is higher
An American scholar once conducted a survey and found that the IQ of the first child is generally 3.28 higher than that of the second child.
Expert analysis, this may be because when parents conceive the first child, the body functions better, providing a better fertilized egg, the baby's gestation environment is better, so the intelligence level is often relatively high.
After reading the above reasons, I don't know if you will choose to leave your first baby!
Here, I would like to appeal for a sentence: the arrival of a small life is not easy, indicating that he is related to you, or do not give up casually, if you have not yet thought of becoming a parent, please do a good job of contraception, do not let your partner and children be hurt because of your own momentary pleasure.
The following types of women need to be carefully considered before giving up their first child
1. Women with blood type O
First of all, women with type O blood are often more difficult to get pregnant, if they are pregnant with a small baby, it is a great fate, and the child can be described as a "passer" to survive and come to your side.
This time, if you can't keep it, it is often more difficult to get pregnant again.
Second, there is another potential risk to pay attention to – hemolysis.
Studies have found that women with O blood type, if their husbands are also O blood, give birth to children with their own antibodies, and they can also be lucky to avoid the attack of hemolysis.
But if the husband is A type blood or B blood, then the risk of hemolysis will be relatively large, and the first baby is relatively lucky, this probability is often relatively small, but if you have a second child, the baby with a single antibody in the body is easy to be unexpected under the attack of maternal blood group antibodies, thereby increasing the risk of hemolysis.
It can be seen that if you are a woman with blood type O, the probability of giving birth to a healthy baby in the first fetus is relatively large, and it is recommended not to give it up casually.
2. Women with thin endometrial wall
In fact, as mentioned above, if the female endometrial wall is relatively thin, the fetus is often difficult to survive, it is easy to flow off, if the first fetus can keep the best.
Studies have found that women's endometrium changes during the menstrual cycle, usually the endometrial thickness is about 1 to 4 mm during menstruation; the early follicle period is about 4 to 8 mm; the late follicular stage is 8 to 14 mm; and the secretory period is 7 to 14 mm.
Experts believe that if a woman's endometrium is less than 5mm, it is often difficult for a fertilized egg to complete implantation, and the chance of pregnancy is relatively low. Even if you are lucky enough to get pregnant, there is still a risk of ectopic pregnancy or miscarriage.
In case of another abortion, the already fragile lining wall will be injured even more, and it will be difficult to get pregnant afterwards.