Mr. Liu recently encountered an upset that caused the joy of becoming a new father to be washed away for the most part. Last week, his wife gave birth to a male baby in the hospital, and the family was happy.
But the doctor said that this was not their first child, and Mr. Liu was very confused, knowing that he had only been married to his wife for one year, and this was their first child.
Thinking of this, Mr. Liu angrily questioned his wife. In desperation, the wife had to tell the truth that she had given birth to a child.
She was unmarried and pregnant, but after the baby was born, she died unexpectedly, and she and her boyfriend also broke up. Because I didn't want my husband to have a different look at me, I didn't say it, but I didn't expect the doctor to see it all at once.
When Mr. Liu heard this, he was helpless, looking at his lovely son, he had to put down his wife's past and start a new life together.
In the impression of many people, whether it is the first birth should be a relatively private thing, after all, when you are young, you have a good child to raise your body, and it is not impossible to return to the previous state, and outsiders will not easily find out.
But how do doctors know? This is actually based on the birth process of the mother.
1. Changes in the size of the growth site
Doctors can first determine whether it is the first birth by the mother's fertility site. If it is the first birth, the fertility site will be relatively small, the birth canal will be narrower, and it needs to be artificially expanded to alleviate the pain of the mother.
But if it is not the first birth, the birth canal already has a memory of childbirth, and the fertility process does not have to be so difficult. This is also the reason why we often say that two children are easier than one.
2. The time of giving birth
Due to fear, lack of strength, lack of experience and other reasons, it is more common for new pregnant mothers to spend five or six hours in normal labor.
Moreover, because the psychological pressure faced by the first child is also larger, when they are close to giving birth, they will show panic, and some also need the bed of their families to comfort themselves.
However, "once born and two times mature", the time it takes for a pregnant mother who is not the first child to give birth is relatively short. Because at the first time of childbirth, some experience has already been mastered.
In addition, when taking care of children, you will also understand this knowledge. And their bodies have formed a layer of memory function, and they use some techniques when giving birth.
Under these multiple guarantees, the speed of pregnant mothers giving birth to their second child will be accelerated, sometimes in an hour or two.
3. The painful process of having a child
The process of giving birth to a child by every mother is extremely painful, so many mothers are willing to choose to isolate the painful state through anesthesia, but not all mothers can get what they want.
Some mothers can't get anesthesia, so they need to directly feel the pain of childbirth. Therefore, the mother of a child will be particularly unbearable.
When the family is outside the operating room, they will hear the sound of the pregnant mother screaming and tearing. But because the second-born mother already has the last experience, it will not be so painful during childbirth, and the baby will be born smoothly.
In addition to these, pregnant women must go through various examinations before giving birth, so as not to have any accidents that are too late to deal with, and cause danger If the pregnant mother has any hidden secrets, it is best to tell the family clearly, otherwise it will eventually cause misunderstandings to affect the feelings between the family, which is very bad.