Chatting with the girlfriend of the obstetrics and gynecology department, Chen Chen, about a mother-in-law who brought her daughter-in-law to the hospital and insisted that the daughter-in-law have an early caesarean section, which made the medical staff present a little surprised.
Can't help but ask why this mother-in-law wants to give birth to her child prematurely? Is there something wrong with the child?
Later, I learned that the child's development was very healthy, but the mother-in-law listened to the fortune teller, and it was said that the next day was a good day.
If you were born at that time, the future would be immeasurable, and your life would be full of wealth. This made all the medical staff present cry and laugh, and finally understood why the daughter-in-law was helpless.
In the past, many people would believe in such a thing as "destiny", believing that whether a person's fate is good or bad is decided when they first come to this world.
Before the birth of a child, we must first find a fortune teller to look at the days, in fact, we all know clearly that fate is in our own hands, but we are not willing to face it.
Destiny is primarily determined by circumstances, family conditions, the degree of effort, and the personality of an individual's life.
Therefore, in order to catch up with the good days, the child can be born earlier, which is not only irrelevant to the child's future achievements and glory, but also may be detrimental to the child's development.
But children born at the same time do have different personalities, but this is not the so-called "birthday" that determines everything, but has a scientific basis.
Most lucky people are born at these three points:
1. Born in the off-season of parental work
The mother needs to exhaust most of her energy to give birth to the baby in October, so she needs to rely on postpartum confinement to restore physical vitality.
However, due to the needs of life, most mothers have to return to work after giving birth. But there are also some jobs that have so-called "off-season" as well as "high season".
If the child can be born in the off-season of baoma's work, the impact on baoma's health will be minimized, and a lot of time can be taken out to take care of the child, and the body will recover better.
In addition, if it happens to be the time of the child's birth, it happens that the parents are in the off-season period of work, so that the father-to-be can also take time to take care of his wife and children.
Bao Mom can also avoid postpartum depression, of course, children will also grow up healthier because of the company of expectant fathers.
2. Born in a good season
In winter, people's resistance is low, and the vitality of newborns born at this stage is not particularly high, but at the turn of spring and winter, everything will slowly recover.
The circulation of human blood will also be accelerated, the resistance and other aspects will also be improved, and the birth of the child at this stage will also be good for health.
Therefore, the child is born in a good climate, which is not only important for the child's development, but also for the postpartum rehabilitation of the mother. The temperature is suitable, the child's growth and development will also accelerate, and it can also avoid some diseases caused by too high and too low temperature after birth.
For Bao Ma, the climate and temperature during pregnancy also have a relative impact on the recovery after childbirth.
3. Born at the right age of the parents
Pregnancy too early and too late has an impact on women, and the optimal age for women to have children is between 25 and 30 years old.
At this age, women's productive capacity is the best, whether it is egg quality, probability of conception, maternal condition, is the best state.
In addition, the reproductive age of men should also be controlled at 30 to 35 years old, during this period of male sperm quality is relatively high, of course, the premise is that men are healthy and have no bad habits.
If the child happens to be born at the best age for both parents, then the child's physical development will also be beneficial.
However, no matter when the child is born, the most important thing is that the parents are prepared, so that the child will be happy and healthy after birth.