With the landing of the three-child policy, many couples have new ideas. Sister Wang is a famous loving couple in our unit, but the two couples are a little sorry, they have always wanted a son, but they have two children who are daughters. Before, there was no idea because the policy did not allow it, and now with this policy, the two couples feel that they can also have another one. But Sister Wang is already 45 years old, which is considered to be an over-age mother. For the third child at this age, the development of the fetus is not guaranteed, and the burden on the eldest and second eldest is also very heavy.
If an over-aged mother gives birth to three children, it will have a great impact on both the baby and the mother. As we all know, the best age to have children is before the age of 35, which is also determined by the characteristics of human growth. After the age of 35, there are signs of decline in all aspects of the human body. Not to mention that at the age of 45, even doctors will advise Bao Mom not to continue to get pregnant and have children. If the baby is born after the age of 45, the baby has a higher chance of developing Down syndrome and other genetic diseases.
The number of eggs in a woman's lifetime is limited, and as she ages, her entire physical fitness decreases. These include egg quality, quantity, and ovarian function, among others. In other words, when the mother reaches the age of 45, the probability of pregnancy will be greatly reduced, and even if she is pregnant, she will naturally not have the health of the baby born at the optimal reproductive age.
Now female friends have a consensus that natural childbirth is better than caesarean section. If 45-year-old and 25-year-old women are compared, of course, 25-year-old women are more likely to have a smooth birth, after all, young is the biggest capital, at this time the elasticity of the uterus, the toughness of the birth canal, plus the pelvic floor muscles are more powerful. 45-year-old female friends, most likely can only choose caesarean section.
Over-age mothers also have an impact on the health of the baby, such as elderly women in the process of childbirth, it is easy to have a difficult process of production, this process may cause harm to the health of the baby, the most common problem is the lack of oxygen in the fetus, and when the baby is born, there may be brain development problems.
In the process of childbirth or no problems, but due to the low quality of the eggs, the baby is likely to be born with a situation where the height and weight are not up to standard, and the severe may be premature, and it is necessary to stay in the incubator for a period of time.
In addition to these internal factors, external factors also need to be considered. As the saying goes, the economic base determines the superstructure. The economy is the first factor to consider. In one family, there are two children up. And neither of these children is too young. It is precisely when it costs money that the cost of education is increasing year by year.
If a baby is born, from birth to eat milk powder, plus diapers are not wet, baby products are also a big expense, so if you want to give birth to three treasures, you must consider whether a family can withstand such economic pressure, can not because of the arrival of three treasures, so that the family becomes stretched.
However, many couples did not consider it well, and gave birth to the Three Treasures when their heads were hot. When the baby is born, the big treasure and the second treasure are also older and can make money, so as to increase the burden on the big treasure and the second treasure.
45-year-old over-age mothers, by the time the child is born, it is not small. And the baby grows up is a process, when the baby is 10 years old, the mother is already 55 years old. At this time, if Bao Ma and Bao Dad are in good health, they can still take care of Xiao Bao. But if the body is sick, it can only be taken care of by the relatives Dabao and the second treasure, and now the pressure on young people is very large, and they also want small babies, and naturally there are complaints.
Although there are many problems in giving birth to the Three Treasures, not every family is not suitable for the Birth of the Three Treasures. The situation of each family is different, and naturally they can choose according to their own conditions. Some couples struggle for careers when they are young and have good financial conditions. The wife keeps exercising all year round and maintains her body very well. And if you are already in a state of retirement, life is relatively monotonous, and it is okay to have a child.
Giving birth to three treasures can allow the husband and wife to enhance their feelings. Many couples at this stage, there are often only two people left in the family, and the two older children may work or study in the field. After years of getting along, the enthusiasm of the husband and wife has gradually faded, and their lives are only left with chai rice oil and salt. Couples are often relatively speechless, basically doing their own thing.
At this time, if there is a baby, the husband and wife have more common topics, such as what happened to the baby today, the baby will laugh today, will call Mom and Dad, will cry. At the same time, it also reminds the couple of the past experience of taking a baby. The arrival of the Three Treasures has added more fun to the ordinary life.
For the second treasure of the big treasure, although there may be a burden, it also makes them have a sense of responsibility. In the future, there will be more brothers and sisters, which can also be regarded as companionship, and when encountering something in the future, there will be one more person in the family who can discuss, so that the three children will have a mutual dependence on each other. Everything has pros and cons, giving birth to a three-child baby, is not necessarily a bad thing, or a good thing, depending on the choice of the family.