After reading: "Proper self-esteem", self-esteem disease

In life, we often hear that some people suffer from some mental illnesses, such as depression, somatic deformation disorder, social phobia, and even narcissism, etc., these diseases are often closely related to individual self-esteem.

I just finished reading the relevant content in "Proper Self-Esteem": Self-Esteem Disease. In general, for stable people with low self-esteem, they have a negative mentality for a long time and do not make an effort to get out of the predicament, so this type of person is at great risk of depression. Unstable people with high self-esteem, such people always strive to maintain their status and image, and are very vulnerable to failure and rejection by others, which makes them exhausted. A well-known author in the field of psychotherapy for depression. Baker proposed: People with social reward personalities and autonomous personalities are prone to depression.

Psychiatry has long accused parents of poor parenting that leads children to schizophrenia and autism. The role of parents is very large for self-esteem. The main cause of self-esteem problems in children is the lack of education. Some really "toxic" parents are the culprits, there are these types of parents, here to share with you: everything control parents, this abuse of parental authority parents believe that only they know what is good for their children, do not give their children any autonomy. Alcoholic parents, their emotions towards their children from depressed to hostile, because they themselves are sick, have no time to take care of their children's needs and mentality, that extremely fragile image and even physical and mental decay make the child's self-esteem unstable. The ugliness of their parents' alcoholic family cannot be publicized, which further enhances their sense of shame and distrust of the adult world. Verbally abusive parents of children who are adept at belittling their children and criticizing their mistakes, weaknesses, and even their physical characteristics with cruel words. Parents who physically punish their children, for various reasons can not control the urge to violently abuse their children. There are also parents who sexually abuse their children, and the self-esteem of the sexually abused children is extremely seriously hurt, and they often get various mental illnesses, such as borderline personality, which makes people show serious instability in emotional relationships, and it is difficult to establish normal relationships with others.

In the process of children's growth, parents are the first responsible person. Only qualified parents with sound personality can educate qualified children, at the moment when the child lands, parents must pay attention to it - for each stage of the child's future education, must not be taken lightly, no one will be born to be a parent, if you know that you have some aspects of bad habits, or some aspects of the deficiencies, to hold the mentality of growing up with the child, explore and learn together, build on the strengths and avoid the weaknesses. Strive to cultivate a healthy, happy and responsible next generation.