The couple was married for a few years, but on the first day of giving birth, the father had to do DNA identification
Why do children do DNA at birth?
Isn't the child actually his own?
The mediator turned to the mediator for help from Mr. Li from Xinmi, Henan.
Mr. Lee, who turned to the investigators
After meeting the mediator, Mr. Li told about the matter with his wife, Ms. Qi, and Mr. Li said: "The two of us got married on May 17, 2015, when we were introduced by friends, we got married after a period of time, and we have been married for 4 years now." Listening to Mr. Li's words, the first feeling is that this couple should be very good. It's only been a few years since they got married, and it's a time when the younger two are struggling. But Mr. Li opened his mouth again and said, "Now there is a thing that we have a child, but this child is not mine!" "What's going on! Married for 4 years! Is the wife having an affair? What's going on?
Married for 4 years
The mediator was surprised and asked Mr. Li, "What evidence is there to prove that the child is not his own?" "Mr. Li directly took out a hospital DNA report sheet, which clearly stated that he was not related to the child by blood! After Mr. Li asked the mediator to read it, he said to the mediator: "The child was just born, and I went to do DNA identification!" The investigator then asked Mr. Li, "You made DNA when you were born, does your wife know?" She didn't know, I told her it was a blood test, and when the final results came out, I took it out for her to see." Mr. Lee replied.
DNA identification results
DNA identification has been done, it seems that the child's thing is already a fact, so what is the reason why Mr. Li wanted to do DNA identification in the first place? It turned out that before the pregnancy, the two had quarreled, there was a cold war, and his wife, Ms. Qi, also returned to her mother's house, but it was not okay to go home without the cold war. Mr. Li also loved his wife very much in this marriage, and later, he called his mother-in-law and wanted his mother-in-law to persuade her to go home, but the answer of the mother-in-law was the most fatal.
Pregnancy test stick two bars
The mother-in-law said that her daughter was pregnant! At this time, Mr. Li's doubts are there, because Mr. Li has been working in other places for a long time, and the two are not often together, so how can his wife get pregnant? One by one, the problems lingered in Mr. Li's mind, and later, just after giving birth to the child, he directly did DNA identification, and the result was that the child was not his own! Mr. Li is very angry about this matter, and his parents are also very opinionated on this matter! Now Mr. Li's purpose is to find the child's biological father, this child does not want to, the two still can't live a life, but also to see what his wife Ms. Qi said! See how Ms. Qi gave Mr. Li an explanation, and how to give an explanation to the parents of both sides!
Go out to work
What the hell is going on? We followed the mediator to meet Mr. Li's wife, Ms. Qi, and after meeting Ms. Qi, the mediator began to ask about the whole incident: "Mr. Li said that this child is not his own, is it not true?" "He did the DNA, so now the child is definitely not his, and I admit that the child is not his." Ms. Qi answered the mediator's questions. Faced with a DNA test report made by her husband, she could only determine that the child was not her husband's, and there was a reason for all this.
Ms. Qi
Ms. Qi was very depressed when she held the child, and there were tears in her eyes, which made the mediator very puzzled. What's going on? Is there a reason why the child is not Mr. Li's? Finally, under the persuasion of the mediator, Ms. Qi said the reason, it turned out that before she was pregnant, Ms. Qi went to Shenzhen to work, but one night Ms. Qi was bullied by the gangsters, and then she was afraid and did not dare to call the police. After listening to Ms. Qi's words, the mediator expressed deep sympathy, but at the same time, the questions also appeared, and the mediator asked Ms. Qi with questions: "Why don't you tell your husband about this matter after you go home?" Ms. Qi replied: "I didn't say it, I didn't dare to say it, I felt sorry for him, I was not embarrassed to mention this matter, I never thought that the child was not his, I still thought it was his, I didn't know it was not after he did DNA, that is the other person who bullied me."
Down in the dumps
Mr. Li had a different view of his wife's explanation, and Mr. Li said excitedly: "She didn't tell the truth, she told me that he went to Shanghai!" "How come two people still talk differently?" Ms. Qi heard Mr. Li retort to herself, and the two people quarreled on the spot, and Mr. Li pointed to the sky and said, "Let's swear to heaven!" Who talks nonsense. Head screwed off! The mediator felt that whether Ms. Qi went to Shanghai or Shenzhen, whether she was telling the truth or not, now that things had happened. It's not a good idea to argue like this! Or should you sit down and discuss what to do later!
Refute the wife
After persuading both sides to calm down, both sides went inside the house and sat together to settle things well. In the house, Ms. Qi said that she could not imagine that the child was conceived after being bullied, and at first she thought that the child was her husband's, but Mr. Li has always been skeptical about this! Ms. Qi also made her attitude clear, or hope to continue to live with Mr. Li, at this time Mr. Li also said that for the child, he can turn the page, but there is one more thing that has always made him feel too willing to go! Mr. Li said that since his wife got married, his wife Ms. Qi often ran outside without home, and his wife's practice made Mr. Li very dissatisfied, but why was Ms. Qi often not at home?
Go back to the house and discuss
Ms. Qi replied: "Before going to Zoomlion Petrochemical to go to work, a day and a night, close to my father's house, after work are to go to my father's side to live, plus take care of my father, my father has no sons below, just our four sisters, but also married, thinking about my father's life, I often go back to my mother's house to live." The mediator also persuaded Ms. Qi: "Since you have already married out, you mainly come to your husband's side, not that you can't go back to your mother's house, but this side can't ignore it, often don't go home, what should your husband do?" In the face of the mediator's persuasion, Ms. Qi also said that it was indeed wrong for her to often live in her mother's house, and seeing that Ms. Qi realized her mistake, the mediator rushed to persuade Mr. Li.
Worked at Zoomlion Petrochemical
Under the persuasion of the mediator, Mr. Li is also somewhat relieved, and can accept his wife and himself to continue to live a life, but there are still conditions, Mr. Li said his own conditions: "First, if she lives with me, she will stay on my side, second, if she passes, my parents on my side will also give living expenses, I give her food and drink, she can't manage the money, I manage the money, I don't care about the children." Hearing her husband Mr. Li put forward such harsh conditions, Ms. Qi could not bear it any longer, and the two people quarreled, the two quarreled because of the money, but the mediator was also present, and the two could not keep arguing, and later the two people were persuaded to stop arguing.
Quarrel situation
Mr. Li said that because the child was not his own reason, his parents were particularly angry, and then he proposed to move out with his wife for a period of time and then come back, but Ms. Qi did not approve, if he moved out to live, Mr. Li was unwilling to take care of his parents. Mr. Li sighed at this time and said: "My family is myself, I have not worked since I was a child, since my wife came, the work is to do it myself, every time I quarrel, my mother is also persuading me, saying don't make me angry, my temper is bad, two people still have to live a life, can not quarrel, you have to let the daughter-in-law." From this, it can be seen that Mr. Li loves his wife very much in this marriage.
Hearing her husband say this, the wife did not hesitate, and the mediator also went to persuade Ms. Qi, and the investigator said: "Your husband told you with tears that he did not let you ignore your parents, he was trying to make his mother slowly accept the child and you, you should understand your husband's good intentions." However, no matter what the mediator said, Ms. Qi still did not agree to the plan to live outside, and the mediator finally decided to let Ms. Qi's father persuade her.
Mr. Lee's father-in-law
Ms. Qi's father said that he was worried that his daughter and son-in-law would go out to live, and when the child was no longer taken care of, the daughter herself could not take care of herself, and if there was time to take care of the child, the mediator felt that his worry was not unreasonable, so he let Mr. Li make a guarantee! Mr. Li said: "The two of you go out to live for a while, wait for the two of you to have a child, and then come back, this child will be taken first, if you are willing to do so, you are not willing to have no way." Ms. Qi's father said that he still did not agree with her son-in-law's plan, fearing that they would not care about him in the future. Hearing him say this, the mediator couldn't stand it, and the mediator said excitedly: "Now Mr. Li has locked his own mother outside the gate, not allowed to come in, and called you in to discuss things. You still can't control your own girlfriend, you still manage your son-in-law, you don't listen, a few people explain to you, if you want to make them two better, then let it go. In the end, Ms. Qi's father finally agreed, and Ms. Qi also agreed to the plan to go out and live.
In the end both sides compromised
The matter ended like this, did Mr. Li and Ms. Qi end up having their own children, and what happened to the child who was not biological? I think only they know!
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