The author | Woman Intensive Reading Orange
Source| Women's Intensive (ID:xinlinglr)
Someone once said, "A good relationship,
It must be mutual achievement, not mutual wasting. ”
Whether it's love or marriage,
Two people snuggle up to each other, support each other,
In order to go further on the road of life,
Feelings can also become more and more happy.
Many times, women are insecure,
Suspect that men are not so sincere about themselves,
Just want to play.
But in fact, there are many insignificant little things in life.
can be proof that he loves you,
If a man is willing to do it for you,
Actively reject these 4 things,
There's no doubt he really cares about you.
Refuse to spend time and keep your distance from the opposite sex
In the process of interpersonal communication,
If a man does not know how to refuse ambiguity,
Then he is definitely not a qualified partner.
Once two people have established a relationship,
be responsible for each other,
Refusal to spend hearts and betrayal,
Keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex.
The heart of beauty, the common sentiment of man,
But when emotions have belonging,
Whether it's a man or a woman,
should be rational and restrained,
Be loyal and single-minded to your significant other.
If men really put you in their hearts,
In the process of getting along with the opposite sex,
Will definitely grasp the measure,
Won't do anything that makes you sad.
He cares about how you feel.
will take care of your mood,
He knows that even if you say it doesn't matter,
I will still be unhappy in my heart.
He doesn't want you to feel a little sad and suspicious.
There will be a clear rejection of ambiguity and concern from the opposite sex.
Such a man,
will make women more secure,
Feel valued and cherished.
Refuse to be preoccupied, always preach the big truth
A good relationship,
It must be two people who tolerate each other and understand each other.
If you are always calculating, step by step,
Tell the big truth at every turn,
I want the other party to admit that I have lost,
Sooner or later, this relationship will not go on.
Two people living under one roof,
Inevitably there will be stumbling times,
When the dispute occurs,
What women want is not a long-winded argument,
It's a hug from a man.
Many times,
A warm embrace, a few soft words of comfort,
It can make quarrels invisible.
If a man really loves you,
Surely it will not be unforgiving,
Always trying to convince you.
Because he knows,
With your lover,
There is no need to fight over who loses and who wins.
The more you fight, the less love you have,
The more tolerance, the stronger the love.
Will care about women's feelings,
Never make a woman sad.
Refuse to complain and solve the problem effectively
There's a saying that goes, "He who can control his temper,
In order to control their own lives. ”
Whether it is in daily life or in feelings,
If a man is always in times of dissatisfaction,
Like to complain about the complaints of the world,
Then he certainly can't become a great instrument,
Nor can it give a woman happiness.
When men really put you in their hearts,
You become the motivation for men to fight,
He will strive for a better life for your little life,
No matter how hard and tired you are, you are willing.
Even if you encounter difficulties,
I don't always complain.
Because he knows it's not going to solve the problem.
It will also make you worry about him.
He will adjust his mentality on his own,
Calmly deal with all the problems.
Mature and steady, like to solve problems with practical actions,
Make women feel at ease.
Refuse cold violence and make it clear when you have something to say
Life is not an idol drama,
It won't be smooth sailing, there will always be some difficulties.
Some problems, as long as two people sit down and have a good chat,
You can unravel the contradictions.
Quarrels are not terrible,
What is terrible is the way the quarrel is handled.
Some men, always like cold violence,
I like to slam the door and come out when arguing,
Two people pay no attention to the other,
There is no solution to the problem, but also to the future life buried hidden dangers,
Once one party has brought up the old matter again,
Quarrels are inevitable.
Cold violence is the great enemy of emotional life,
In the Cold War, the hearts of two people are getting farther and farther apart,
Trust in each other is also depleted.
Men who really love you,
I am absolutely reluctant to be cold and violent to you,
He loves you too late,
How can it make you sad alone,
He will calm his mood,
When your mood is stable,
Two people have a good talk,
Leave the problem aside,
Do not leave knots in each other's hearts.
Rational and calm, more worthy of women's love and trust.
Whether husband and wife or lover,
Two people together,
It has always been easy to love each other, and it is difficult to keep each other,
Want to maintain a relationship for a long time,
It takes two people to cherish each other.
Love is never a one-man affair,
Will be willing to care for you, tolerate you, cherish you,
Actively reject these 4 things,
Your life will also become happier and sweeter.
Leave no regrets.
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