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Mu Xin said: In the past, the sun became slow, the cars, horses, and mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime.
True love is unique, can stand the test of time, even if you live a life of rough tea and light food, you still feel extremely satisfied in your heart.
However, the world is becoming more and more complex, and it is not easy to meet people who are sincerely treated. No matter how beautiful love is, in the end, it still has to be flat, and only two people who know how to pay and tolerate can maintain this sweetness.
Today's young people, working and living are very busy, even after marriage, they never cook, go out early and return late every day, and even have no chance to be alone.
The atmosphere in the home is always very low, how can the love between husband and wife last?
To manage feelings, it is not to see how high the income is, or how luxurious the house is, but to see how close the hearts of two people are, how tolerant and loving they are.
If a family is unhappy, just look at one place in the house, and that is the kitchen.
01: The temperature of the kitchen is a symbol of family love
Whether a woman's family life after marriage is good or not, in fact, it is clear to look at the kitchen.
Men with low levels of thought find it difficult to appreciate the difficulties of their wives, who self-righteously believe that housework is what women should do, even if they see that their wives are already busy in the kitchen and are extremely tired, but they are still indifferent.
If you choose such a selfish man, it is difficult to live happily in so many halves.
The temperature of the kitchen is a symbol of the love of a family, and the man who really knows how to care for you will use love and action to manage your feelings and future.
Even if you can't cook, when you have worked hard to make a table of good dishes, he will know how to help you clean up, and after eating, he will definitely clean the kitchen.
There are loving families, and it is more men who go in and out of the kitchen.
He is not willing to let his beloved woman be robbed of her glamorous appearance every day by the chicken feathers of life, and he can't bear to let you just go around the stove all day.
Uncle Li is a very warm person, although he is not highly educated, but after marrying his wife, most of them are Uncle Li cooking.
He and his lover have jobs, uncle Li will go to buy vegetables very early every day, and he will rush home to cook after work. Sometimes friends or colleagues go to eat at home, and they often deliberately joke about Uncle Li, saying that he is afraid of his wife and has to do housework every day.
However, Uncle Li never felt angry, because he never thought that only women could enter the kitchen. He didn't marry his wife to find a free nanny, but he hoped that they could pity each other.
They have been married for 28 years, and the husband and wife have always been very harmonious and rarely quarrel. In such a family, Uncle Li's son Sanguan is also very positive.
Although their conditions were not very good, the future daughter-in-law just looked at their family style and decided to marry his son.
A family is not happy, from the kitchen looks like, if the man loves you and is willing to cook for you, the family atmosphere will become more and more warm. A vegetable and a meal, as long as you have love in a simple life, it is the most desirable.
02: Even if life is a chicken feather, the kitchen is still steaming
The writer Tao Lixia once said: "When I am too immersed in the world of books, I can go to the kitchen to cook bowls of noodles and return to my own life." ”
Love and marriage are different, after getting married to each other, they have established a family, and when they live together, they need to tolerate and cherish each other, and a family member is not happy, sometimes not to see the economic situation of both parties, but the appearance of the kitchen.
Even if the days are already a chicken feather, but the kitchen is still steaming, then such a home will not be scattered.
I can eat hot food every day, and my depressed mood will be better in an instant.
In fact, there is a different little romance in the kitchen, and when two people who love each other become husband and wife, the love in their hearts must be the most real.
Usually, they will go to the supermarket together to buy ingredients, will prepare a loving breakfast for each other, and be busy in the kitchen, no matter how long the time has passed, this good memory seems to be frozen forever.
We grow up slowly over time and grow older. But the memories left in the kitchen have never changed, as always. It gives you the confidence to face life's challenges and not to stop embracing your family because of a small thing.
A family is happy, it is not necessary to have delicious food, sometimes even if it is just to eat the simplest bowl of chaos, the joy experienced in the heart is also rich.
The steaming kitchen can bring the family back to their authentic lives, use emotions as a seasoning, use your sincere heart as an ingredient, and finally taste the hot soup full of love and warmth.
The fireworks in the world are the most heart-warming.
Families who never cook together, or never cook, but just eat takeout all day, are mostly unhappy because they live only in a house, not a home.
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