Author/Pond Fish
Really, I want to say that girls still don't be brainwashed by some excessive remarks.
For example, when I see such a statement today, I feel more speechless. A girl said that she must find one, treat her as a child pet, even if the other party is angry to death, the other party still cares about the boy who eats or does not eat, wears or does not wear warm clothes, so that it is true love.
But in my opinion, this is what is difficult for strongmen.
Think about it in another way, two people in love, in fact, are equal relationships, why you must the other party treat you as a child pet. What kind of existence does the child exist in our preconceived notions? Children are naïve, romantic, unconstrained by the world, they make some common mistakes but are always able to be forgiven just because they are children and they need a process of growing up.
But if you're already an adult and already have the ability to discern right from wrong, why do you have to go back and be a naïve child? If you are more mature, you can't fall in love? Man, at what age, there should be some thoughts, which is a very normal thing.
No one can support your emotions and future, so even if you are in love, you should maintain an independence.
Moreover, if you already know that you have provoked the other person to be angry, you are about to kill him, since you understand that it is your own mistake. Why can't you admit it? If the other party cares about you at this time, can't he have his own temper? Even if it is a parental affection, no one can still think about you in anger.
This truth is easy to figure out.
So, a lot of times, about some unrealistic expectations in love, just look at it, you can't really believe it, and use it in practice.
As a girl, if you really hold such a thought, you will enter a thinking misunderstanding, thinking that every boy you meet, it seems that he is not very good, and he does not love you enough. In fact, if you think about it, it's not their fault, is it that you have too high expectations for love at the beginning?
In an intimate relationship, two people should be equal, respect each other, tolerate and understand, rather than blindly asking each other to do what to do, and before they have begun to fall in love, they will define your relationship with some rules and regulations about love.
Everyone's situation is different, and you also need to experience it in the actual relationship, and constantly reflect and correct yourself.
This is the correct attitude about love, love is really not a person's business.
While you ask the other party to be good to you, you must also be good to the other party, ask others to spoil you, you also want to spoil others, ask others to tolerate you, you also have to tolerate each other. Many times, love is often produced and consolidated in this process.
It really doesn't mean that you don't have to do anything, you can have someone who loves you like life, this is the plot of the novel or TV series, people who live in real life, always need to return to reality, but also need to have some more practical ideas, in order to embrace true happiness.
Some time ago, I saw a girl say that there was a boy chasing her, and she thought that the boy did not really love her, because she wanted to buy something, and the boy did not buy it for her. After asking, the boy had just bought her something, and as a result she quickly made another request, the boy hesitated because they had not yet established a relationship.
What was she thinking? She wants to use the way of spending money to prove that the boy really loves her, and if he is reluctant to spend money on himself, it will prove that he does not love.
In fact, what I want to say is that two people who have just met, without any unforgettable experience, how can they love so deeply?
To put it bluntly, any love is from hypocrisy to sincerity.
Not so loving at first, it's normal for this person to have doubts and scrutiny of you, it's human instinct. When you first met someone, you could pluck out your heart and lungs? Desperate to give? When you give, you will definitely measure it. This is entirely human instinctive psychology.
So, set your mind straight, and if you really feel good about the other person, you can try to get along positively instead of trying to test.
Feelings are not tentative, and the more tempted you are, the more disappointed you may be in the results you get.
In this process of getting along, the chips of your love for each other will continue to increase, and the fact that you ask the other party to truly love you can turn from a hypothesis to a reality.
No matter what kind of relationship you have, if you want a man to truly love you, you must do two words: sincerity.
Once, a girl told me that she treated her boyfriend very well, but in the end she was let down, and the boy chose another girl who was not so good to him. She is very sad, thinking that it is not to be a scumbag, no longer sincere, but more likely to be cherished?
I told her that it is not like this, the sincerity of each other in love is always the bottom card, and only this bottom card can maintain the harmony of this relationship. Only if you are sincere, you can meet people who are equally sincere.
But like I said, you can't ask a boy to spoil you unconditionally, in the same way you can't just blindly be good to each other, the so-called things must be reversed, you need to have a degree, no matter in which aspect you have done it, love will be affected.
Love, not pure you are good to me, I am also good to you such a simple relationship, many times also need to game, need routines. At the right time, the rational use of some means will not affect your sincerity, nor will it affect your feelings, but will play a beneficial role.
In fact, the reasonable, sincere attitude and the occasional work in love do not conflict.
As long as the big things are clear and judgmental, and some small things, as long as each other can accept it, make a fuss, and make a fuss, it will be conducive to feelings.
If you analyze it carefully, this is also the inferior nature of people, in fact, most people are easier to remember the person who makes them cry than to laugh. Therefore, whether it is a boy or a girl, if you want a person to love you deeply, you must fully mobilize a person's emotions, not only the emotions of joy, you also need to mobilize a person's sadness, disappointment, helplessness but ultimately compromise emotions.
That's all that matters.
Because of this, you found that no, those boys in life who are obedient to their girlfriends are always disappointed in the end, at the same time, girls are the same, if they love each other too much, think too much about each other, they often will not be cherished. About this routine, you must understand.
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