Whenever faced with gender issues, many families are blind spots, especially Chinese families, when they see that their children's sex education is missing, they always do not do a good job.
The main reason is that parents are embarrassed to say these things to their children, and they are more afraid of teaching bad children if they say it.
Children have begun to have gender awareness after the age of 3, and they will definitely ask: Where did I come from?
And the mother can only say that you are picked up from the trash can or supermarket, in the face of such a situation, the parent's person suddenly a sentence is confused, but it will make the child more curious.
Therefore, when the child asks these questions, do not avoid talking about it,
Because the way of fooling is no longer good, after all, the mobile phone network is so developed now, and the child is much precocious than imagined.
And in the recent network of a video suddenly went viral, it turned out that the father and mother took a bath together, the 5-year-old son found out that he was particularly angry, and said: I did not have a bath with you.
Because a conversation with my mother quickly became an Internet celebrity on the Internet, everyone felt interesting at the same time, in fact, it also attracted many parents to reflect on sex education.
It turned out that the little boy also did not understand that his father and mother were bathing together, and his mother also raised doubts about it.
Since I was one year old, my mother has not bathed with herself, why is this?
And my mother's answer to this is also very direct, you are a boy and I am a girl, how can you take a bath together?
After hearing this answer, the son was obviously very dissatisfied, and continued to retort that his father was also a boy, why could he take a bath with you?
After hearing this, my mother was indeed a little intimidated, and said that your father is my husband, of course, I can take a bath with him.
But after the son heard this, he still couldn't stop, and directly said that after I found out that my father was taking a bath with you, then next time I would take a bath with you.
In this regard, this mother did not condone the child, directly joked, in the future you can wash with your wife when you grow up, the son is still not forgiving, expressing great disagreement.
Then the mother continued to patiently explain to the child, telling the boy and the girl that the body was different and could not be bathed together.
In the face of this interesting dialogue, it really made many netizens laugh and keep their mouths shut.
However, there are also many rational parents who agree with this mother's education method, think that this mother's education method is particularly good, and also give themselves a wake-up call.
In the face of children's various problems, it is still recommended that everyone should explain clearly to their children and not let their children leave regrets.
In fact, the child does not have any ideas mainly because of simple envy and enjoyment of time with his mother.
But as a parent, you should know more about it, especially parents of the opposite sex should pay more attention when their children ask such questions, such as public baths, parents should not let their children go;
There is also the need to carry out gender education for children in a timely manner, which is also very beneficial to the growth of children.
Teach children to protect their bodies
When strangers want to touch their own bodies, be brave and say no, parents can initially tell their children how the bodies of men and women are different, why they are not the same.
And which parts of the child can not be touched, which is also teaching children to protect their gender awareness, early education can also avoid many problems.
Teach children how to get along with the opposite sex
Whether it is a boy or a girl, after all, the father or mother is the first person the child comes into contact with the opposite sex, and it should provide an exemplary role in the process of getting along;
For example, to know which are normal communication, and which behaviors are sometimes inappropriate, this is also in disguise to teach children how to protect their own bodies, but also to teach children the correct interpersonal communication.
When facing the child's gender education, as a parent, do not avoid, face and firmly answer to dispel the child's curiosity.
It must be that in the current Internet age, the information on the Internet is uneven, and if the curiosity is not satisfied, it is likely to inspire children to search online, be susceptible to being affected by the Internet or media, and come into contact with some incorrect information about sex.
At this time, children need to have a deep understanding of gender roles, learn the correct sexual knowledge and the origin of life, etc. with the help of their parents.
The best way to educate is to seize the small opportunities in daily life, such as the intimate scenes in the TV show or the small stories in the newspaper, and you can take the opportunity to carry out sex education.
Therefore, when children ask questions about "sex", do not escape, parents should become the best guide and guide of sex education in the process of children's growth.
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