Now many kinds of fathers want to have a daughter, and fathers can be infinitely pampered with their daughters. Some fathers have a son and a daughter, and they will also have a great preference for their daughters, and they will be proper daughter slaves. Some little girls are especially spoiled, and their fathers and fathers cry sweetly and will also make a deep confession to their fathers, saying that their fathers are her favorite people in this world. Three or two words also directly warmed the father's heart, and the father's eyes when he looked at his daughter would be full of tenderness and full of pampering.
There are many mothers complaining on the Internet, having a daughter is like giving birth to a love enemy for herself, father and daughter will often get tired of getting together, and the daughter will eat her own vinegar, thinking that the father is her own.
For example, I saw a mother on the Internet who openly complained that his husband's behavior was "inappropriate", he often interacted with his daughter, and the relationship between the two was particularly close. In the summer, the weather was too hot, and he often did not wear a top at home, only a pair of shorts. The daughter wore a small short skirt and sat directly on her father's lap. When the mother saw this scene, she suddenly realized that her daughter had grown up and reminded her father to pay attention.
Unexpectedly, the father did not think so, and continued to fight with his daughter. Netizens do not agree on the complaint of Bao Ma, some netizens think that the daughter has been playing with her father since she was a child, in fact, there is nothing, but this Bao Mom has made a big fuss. Some netizens also believe that even if the father and daughter are affectionate, they must pay attention to the boundaries as their daughter grows up.
The father was involved in the growth of his daughter and was somewhat reluctant
As the saying goes, men avoid mothers, and women avoid fathers. Fathers can participate in the growth of their daughters, give their daughters unlimited paternal love, and let her grow up in a loving atmosphere, which is worth encouraging, but fathers and daughters have gender differences after all, and they should also pay attention to boundaries in the process of loving their children, especially after the daughter has gender awareness, a series of things such as bathing the daughter need to be completed by the mother. It will be of much benefit to her future growth.
Now there are many novice dads, daughters from the day of birth, have a dad to take care of, change their diapers, give them a bath. The daughter grew up and became gender-conscious. These things are left to the mother to do, and in the grandmother's heart, they may feel that something is missing, and they are also a little reluctant, let alone imagine the scene when the daughter gets married.
What should fathers pay attention to their daughters in their daily lives
First, sleep in the right room at the right age, and generally the child can sleep with the parents when he is 3 to 6 years old, which not only respects the physical and mental development of the child, but also respects the privacy of the parents.
Second, do not change clothes in front of the child, many parents think that the child is still young and does not understand anything. In fact, after the child is three years old, he begins to have a long-term memory of many things they have experienced and may remember when they grow up, so parents should accept psychologically that the child is already a small adult, and when changing clothes, they must avoid them, the child will have some ignorant feelings, for the sake of the child's physical and mental health, we must pay more attention in this regard.
Third, avoid private parts, and children slowly appear gender consciousness after the age of 4 to 5, and they are full of shyness and curiosity about their bodies.
At this time, parents can use picture books to do enlightenment education for children, parents do not touch the child's private parts, in the bath and change of clothes, it is best to help the same sex parents to help the child, with words and deeds to tell the child that men and women are always different, which parts of their own body to protect well, can not let others touch casually, usually in terms of wearing what to pay attention to, should keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, let the child have such awareness, they will slowly know how to protect themselves.
There are many words describing the affection between parents and children, and the most favorite sentence is that the so-called father-daughter mother-son relationship means that the fate of this life and his fate in this life and this life is constantly watching his back drift away, and he uses his back to tell you that you don't have to chase. Do you think that there is a certain reason for men to avoid mothers and women to avoid fathers?